<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Okay guys here's the deal</p><p>I'm trying to get into all this fediverse stuff and I desperately want to get off discord. One of my peers tried to set up a "matrix server" with something called Sable, and I was able to get into that but unfortunately I had to scrap that and leave the discord server because they were a chronically mean POS.</p><p>Anyways, I need help figuring out the basics. what is the fediverse exactly? how does it work? how do I join? get me off discord!!</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/matrix" rel="tag">#<span>matrix</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/fediverse" rel="tag">#<span>fediverse</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/14b49988-cb1f-465b-9f06-99249283baad/okay-guys-here-s-the-deal</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2026 06:20:16 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/14b49988-cb1f-465b-9f06-99249283baad.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 16:39:00 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 22:22:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mallow">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> </p><p>Hey there Mallow <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f44b.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wave" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="👋" alt="👋" /> </p><p>Discord is centralised so it's all run by the Discord corporation, but on the Fediverse and Matrix each server is fully independent. More info at <a href="https://fedi.tips/what-is-mastodon-what-is-the-fediverse" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>fedi.tips/what-is-mastodon-wha</span><span>t-is-the-fediverse</span></a></p><p>The Fediverse is mainly about reading/viewing things that people have posted, whereas Matrix is mainly about real time chat.</p><p>If you want more info about the Fediverse see <a href="https://fedi.tips" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>fedi.tips</span><span></span></a>, if you want more info about Matrix see <a href="https://matrix.org" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>matrix.org</span><span></span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.growyourown.services/users/FediTips/statuses/117396299264568226</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.growyourown.services/users/FediTips/statuses/117396299264568226</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[feditips@social.growyourown.services]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 22:22:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 20:02:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/mallow%40mastodon.world">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> </p><p>The core of the idea is that most websites that are social-focused have a lot of the same fields, right?  Whether it's a messageboard, a microblog, a video site, a photo sharing site, etc - everybody has - a usename, some links to the user's info, post data, likes or upvotes or hearts or whatever.</p><p>All ActivityPub did was standardize those basic website building blocks so not only is it easier to build a new "front end" that uses them, but they can also work across websites.</p><p>So even though I'm here on Mastodon, I can follow a video account or a photo account on one of their own websites, and their posts and info shows up here just like they were using Mastodon.  And if I comment on it, or like it, or whatever, that shows up back on their end.</p><p>Hopefully.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/thevhswizard/statuses/117395746608024404</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/thevhswizard/statuses/117395746608024404</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[thevhswizard@retro.pizza]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 20:02:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 19:27:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/mallow%40mastodon.world">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> First off, capture a faery</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Oldfartrant/statuses/117395608113047586</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Oldfartrant/statuses/117395608113047586</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[oldfartrant@mstdn.ca]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 19:27:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 18:01:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mallow">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> You just joined! Welcome!<br />Now you only need to make new friends. Follow interesting accounts, tell something about yourself, boost and like toots.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/joopdelfijn/statuses/117395269899803747</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/joopdelfijn/statuses/117395269899803747</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[joopdelfijn@mstdn.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 18:01:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 17:47:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mallow">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> </p><p>Ok, so good news - you've already joined, this (Mastodon) is one of the more prominent parts of the Fediverse.</p><p>You're going to probably get a lot of people making various tortured metaphors for what the fediverse is and how it works, and they can be overwhelming, so I'll try and simplify it.</p><p>All "The Fediverse" is, at the very root of it, is a bunch of different websites that all use a set of commonly agreed upon protocols to run their website's primary function, which is usually some variation on social media, like cloning twitter or instagram or youtube. </p><p>And, because all these websites and systems use the same basic data formatting for their underbelly, it means that the websites can all talk to one another without you needing a million different log-ins.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/thevhswizard/statuses/117395218228128888</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/thevhswizard/statuses/117395218228128888</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[thevhswizard@retro.pizza]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 17:47:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 16:49:06 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2b06.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--arrow_up" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="⬆" alt="⬆" />️ Can anyone help <span><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mallow">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span> with getting off <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Discord" rel="tag">#<span>Discord</span></a> and starting her own thing(s)? <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f64f.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--pray" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="🙏" alt="🙏" /></p><p>(*I think there's confusion about what a Discord type "server" is as opposed to a normal server such as in Fediverse, and how to create something more of a direct replacement to Discord, like the acquaintance said he created "a Fediverse version of Discord," it's above my pay grade <img class="not-responsive emoji" src="https://media.mstdn.social/custom_emojis/images/000/442/059/original/2d0be54ba9e8b611.png" title=":akkoconfused:" /> )</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/decentralization" rel="tag">#<span>decentralization</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/messaging" rel="tag">#<span>messaging</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/fedihelp" rel="tag">#<span>fedihelp</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/server" rel="tag">#<span>server</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/alternativeSocialMedia" rel="tag">#<span>alternativeSocialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/WhereToStart" rel="tag">#<span>WhereToStart</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/LeavingDiscord" rel="tag">#<span>LeavingDiscord</span></a></p><p><span><a href="/user/feditips%40social.growyourown.services">@<span>FediTips</span></a></span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/_L1vY_/statuses/117394987208375149</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/_L1vY_/statuses/117394987208375149</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[_l1vy_@mstdn.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 16:49:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Okay guys here&#x27;s the deal on Tue, 06 Oct 2026 16:46:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Read everything in <a href="https://fedi.tips/" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>fedi.tips/</span><span></span></a> <span><a href="https://mastodon.world/@Mallow">@<span>Mallow</span></a></span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://caneandable.social/users/WeirdWriter/statuses/117394978565660327</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://caneandable.social/users/WeirdWriter/statuses/117394978565660327</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[weirdwriter@caneandable.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 16:46:54 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>