<![CDATA[You know what would be cool?]]>You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🀞

I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… πŸ‘‹

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/63132168-b4e0-4cc8-b256-269d8502ed1f/you-know-what-would-be-coolRSS for NodeFri, 17 Jul 2026 20:16:58 GMTThu, 16 Jul 2026 23:25:56 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:19:34 GMT]]>@masukomi@connectified.com hope the very nice trans woman in her early 50s I think of sees this and reaches out... She follows me.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mk.absturztau.be/notes/aos43zy59qgf00wehttps://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mk.absturztau.be/notes/aos43zy59qgf00weFri, 17 Jul 2026 06:19:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:10:40 GMT]]>Thanks, @temptoetiam !

Hi @masukomi ! You are not alone!

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://types.pl/users/pigworker/statuses/116933829611923540https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://types.pl/users/pigworker/statuses/116933829611923540Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:10:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:05:16 GMT]]>@masukomi I'm turning 52 in a few days. I'll be your friend, fwiw

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.vmann.net/users/leah/statuses/01KXQAVQXWM8Y573374SS5ZWT1https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.vmann.net/users/leah/statuses/01KXQAVQXWM8Y573374SS5ZWT1Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:05:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:01:15 GMT]]>@masukomi I’ve been told most trans people don’t last very long because of how horrible the world is to them. I’m much younger than 50 and I can’t see myself getting that far

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/ap/users/115873434720292895/statuses/116933792597492621https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/ap/users/115873434720292895/statuses/116933792597492621Fri, 17 Jul 2026 06:01:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 05:59:27 GMT]]>@alice @masukomi @taedryn Shit! Sorry, my brain erased the "girl" part of the question and just left "trans".

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://girlcock.club/users/bluewitchgwen/statuses/116933785515195737https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://girlcock.club/users/bluewitchgwen/statuses/116933785515195737Fri, 17 Jul 2026 05:59:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 05:42:30 GMT]]>@masukomi if that's ok with her, I think @pigworker fits the bill.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://eldritch.cafe/users/temptoetiam/statuses/116933718892799692https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://eldritch.cafe/users/temptoetiam/statuses/116933718892799692Fri, 17 Jul 2026 05:42:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:46:55 GMT]]>@geschichtenundmeer
I'm almost 60, and my English is very very bad...
@masukomi
I have boosted your post.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://meerjungfrauengrotte.de/users/michaela/statuses/116933500323990380https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://meerjungfrauengrotte.de/users/michaela/statuses/116933500323990380Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:46:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:30:49 GMT]]>@masukomi Perhaps @michaela ?

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hessen.social/users/geschichtenundmeer/statuses/116933436981435677https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hessen.social/users/geschichtenundmeer/statuses/116933436981435677Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:30:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:26:01 GMT]]>@masukomi @krayola

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tacobelllabs.net/users/astraluma/statuses/116933418149911892https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tacobelllabs.net/users/astraluma/statuses/116933418149911892Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:26:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:11:01 GMT]]>@masukomi
Yeahhhhh, I kinda get told that quite a bit. Well, I've never been told 40 but younger than my current years. Kinda embarrasses me a little but thank you... really. I do appreciate the kind words.

A lot of it I'm sure is my hair. I've never made it a secret that I wear wigs. I just don't really announce it as much anymore. I think putting them on gives me a teeny little facelift of sorts. But yeah, a lot of my hair jumped ship when I was powered by testosterone so I have to wear wigs. I've been trying to figure out a way to put some gray in them so I look more my age but haven't quite figured that out yet.

But the other reason I look younger than my age... Clean livin', ma'am. Cleeeeeen livin'. Plus makeup skills, good lighting, my momma's genes and late-in-life estrogen. ☺️

Thanks for the compliment on the voice acting thing. I've been wanting to try another but haven't found one of those challenges I like and haven't really had the quiet in the house to do it again anyway.

I do have another example though.
Wanna hear the Trans Girl Parlor Trick? 🀭
I've done a little voice acting in a couple of my songs. The old cowboys at the beginning of this one is me.

https://abirdieonawire.bandcamp.com/track/the-jynx

@Damselfly

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/WrenArcher/statuses/116933359108913710https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/WrenArcher/statuses/116933359108913710Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:11:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:00:15 GMT]]>@masukomi @StryderNotavi

Hi there .... Hugz

Hugz & xXx

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933316776570456https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933316776570456Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:00:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:58:55 GMT]]>@masukomi I'm a trans... something, or we are rather because I speak for a plural system, and we're 51 on paper. My elder sibling is in my headspace though and they are 53.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://seattle.pink/ap/users/115855847980876292/statuses/116933311552932404https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://seattle.pink/ap/users/115855847980876292/statuses/116933311552932404Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:58:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:56:48 GMT]]>@masukomi Miau πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ! I keep waiting to use great lines like "when half a century old you are, sore you will be" as well as the new classic "last millennium..."

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://atlbbs.com/users/adric/statuses/116933303229529007https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://atlbbs.com/users/adric/statuses/116933303229529007Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:56:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:52:07 GMT]]>@masukomi

Before HRT: looked 20 years past my age ☠️
After HRT: now look an entire generation younger than my birth age πŸ¦‹

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/dianea/statuses/116933284828498616https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/dianea/statuses/116933284828498616Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:52:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:51:14 GMT]]>@masukomi I’m 55! I know, never ask a woman her age, but i also wish i knew some people elder than me in both age and trans lived experience. Loneliness is the greatest threat to our mental health. πŸ«‚

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/aizuchi/statuses/116933281374559207https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/aizuchi/statuses/116933281374559207Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:51:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:50:10 GMT]]>@StryderNotavi

Hey πŸ‘‹
@MelissaBearTrix πŸ˜€

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933277130006505https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933277130006505Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:50:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:47:04 GMT]]>@dianea yay hi! And yeah we all look and act younger. Comes with being happy with who we are. πŸ˜€ although the HRT certainly helps with the skin. πŸ˜‰

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933264964044182https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933264964044182Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:47:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:46:15 GMT]]>@StryderNotavi @masukomi

I can tell you there are no other trans horologists on fediverse or in the world

Hugz & xXx

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933261725533631https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933261725533631Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:46:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:45:16 GMT]]>@masukomi I'm 51, transitioned at 35, married to the same cisgender woman for 29 years, dress like a soft butch, work in information security, play PC games, have been writing as a hobby since 1981, am extremely AuDHD, lifelong depression sufferer, cPTSD from an abusive step-dad, and I take care of my disabled wife and cats as best I can. Also, lapsed pagan trying to regain my faith in a way that avoids its frequent gender essentialism. Trying to learn to ask better questions instead of focusing on answers.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/jrdepriest/statuses/116933257897007772https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/jrdepriest/statuses/116933257897007772Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:45:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:45:02 GMT]]>@StryderNotavi

Thank you sweetie ... πŸ’‹

@masukomi

Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

Hugz & xXx

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933257002233895https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://gives.hugz.online/users/MelissaBearTrix/statuses/116933257002233895Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:45:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:12:44 GMT]]>@masukomi

I am in my late 50's, but may look and act a bit younger due to HRT...

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/dianea/statuses/116933129945843780https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/dianea/statuses/116933129945843780Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:12:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:09:49 GMT]]>@masukomi yup! I know it doesn’t get the love anymore like Go or Rust now, but it does the job and pays the bills!

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://chaosfem.tw/users/myrialux/statuses/116933118495547154https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://chaosfem.tw/users/myrialux/statuses/116933118495547154Fri, 17 Jul 2026 03:09:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 02:45:04 GMT]]>@jrdepriest hey J R! πŸ‘‹

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933021186020699https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://connectified.com/users/masukomi/statuses/116933021186020699Fri, 17 Jul 2026 02:45:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to You know what would be cool? on Fri, 17 Jul 2026 02:41:59 GMT]]>@masukomi Thank you, I appreciate it!

It's my bedtime, but I put in a follow request πŸ™‚

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.cat/users/naga/statuses/116933009079683525https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.cat/users/naga/statuses/116933009079683525Fri, 17 Jul 2026 02:41:59 GMT