<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over.]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/67cf0c5b-8266-4f70-a41b-a2599c4e0d45/if-you-are-in-your-late-thirties-to-mid-forties-right-now-there-is-a-good-chance-that-you-have-spent-most-of-your-life-in-a-cycle-of-making-some-sort-of-home-on-the-internet-only-to-have-it-crumble-beneath-you-like-chalk-and-having-to-start-over.</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 04:22:46 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/67cf0c5b-8266-4f70-a41b-a2599c4e0d45.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 21:15:27 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:44:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> ultimately brings us here and to self hosting all the things</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/brotherpsyche/statuses/116560013895510087</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/brotherpsyche/statuses/116560013895510087</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[brotherpsyche@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:44:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:41:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> that one hurt.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.tchncs.de/users/Nick_Lange/statuses/116560004158675320</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.tchncs.de/users/Nick_Lange/statuses/116560004158675320</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nick_lange@social.tchncs.de]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:41:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:39:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> You didn't have to do me in like that</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.cloud/users/farhaven/statuses/116559994483732554</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.cloud/users/farhaven/statuses/116559994483732554</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[farhaven@mastodon.cloud]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:39:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:31:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> multiple times. I even ran my own BBS for a time way back in the days of 14.4k modems and two phone lines.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://dice.camp/users/Sablebadger/statuses/116559962194889135</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://dice.camp/users/Sablebadger/statuses/116559962194889135</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sablebadger@dice.camp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:31:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:30:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io" rel="nofollow noopener">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> 🧸</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/itgrrl/statuses/116559959656852817</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/itgrrl/statuses/116559959656852817</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[itgrrl@infosec.exchange]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:30:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:26:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> In my early 50's and have decided that the only way to win is not to play. <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/TheJen/statuses/116559942619248693</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/TheJen/statuses/116559942619248693</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[thejen@beige.party]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:26:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:24:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> I've been in the same IRC channel for over 20 years but the virtual nomadism is otherwise real</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://brontosin.space/users/fool/statuses/116559935418755278</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://brontosin.space/users/fool/statuses/116559935418755278</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fool@brontosin.space]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:24:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:23:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> Worse is that those new platforms somehow get worse.</p><p>The game Starsector has a subreddit /starsector and a very active Forum at fractalsoftworks.com.</p><p>Which one do you think is better quality wise? Going to reddit to get better at the game is like going to the butcher for vegan recipes. At least the memes are ok</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/Benaresh/statuses/116559932717167514</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/Benaresh/statuses/116559932717167514</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[benaresh@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:23:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:23:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/sstephenson%40indieweb.social">@<span>sstephenson</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/thomasfuchs%40hachyderm.io">@<span>thomasfuchs</span></a></span> you laugh, but one can run a gopher site on a ESP32.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://orbital.horse/users/emma/statuses/116559932114972439</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://orbital.horse/users/emma/statuses/116559932114972439</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[emma@orbital.horse]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:23:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:22:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> </p><p>All things beautiful lack permanence</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/n_dimension/statuses/116559926106505455</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/n_dimension/statuses/116559926106505455</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[n_dimension@infosec.exchange]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:22:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:14:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> Not only on the internet</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.tchncs.de/users/bithive/statuses/116559896701218938</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.tchncs.de/users/bithive/statuses/116559896701218938</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bithive@social.tchncs.de]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:14:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:01:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> I feel if you build on sand you should expect it to sink.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/nomadskateboarding/statuses/116559846140634323</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/nomadskateboarding/statuses/116559846140634323</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nomadskateboarding@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:01:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> hahahaha, literally there's a whole group of us who met on a nerd comic forum in the late 90's to the 2000's and we're on like our 4th round of making new social accounts and linking back up to each other. <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f643.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--upside_down_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="🙃" alt="🙃" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/ceremus/statuses/116559842254131479</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/ceremus/statuses/116559842254131479</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ceremus@hachyderm.io]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 04:54:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> Our retirement has been partly funded by a chance meeting on a Compuserve forum.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/randulo/statuses/116559819267581481</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/randulo/statuses/116559819267581481</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[randulo@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 04:54:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 04:45:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="https://aus.social/@rainynight65">@<span>rainynight65</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> in the same way that 64 is nearly 60.  Solidarity!</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodonapp.uk/users/FourT4/statuses/116559781363877935</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodonapp.uk/users/FourT4/statuses/116559781363877935</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fourt4@mastodonapp.uk]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 04:45:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 04:41:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> HAHAHAHHHA.</p><p>I'm 65.</p><p>It is to laugh.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/GeePawHill/statuses/116559766798165487</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/GeePawHill/statuses/116559766798165487</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[geepawhill@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 04:41:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 04:09:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/furby%40towns.gay">@<span>furby</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span></p><p>Started before then, but I think I miss that one most.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://kolektiva.social/users/violetmadder/statuses/116559641875058673</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://kolektiva.social/users/violetmadder/statuses/116559641875058673</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[violetmadder@kolektiva.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 04:09:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:59:52 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> or late 50's <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f601.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--grin" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😁" alt="😁" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.radio/users/vk6flab/statuses/116559602810774001</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.radio/users/vk6flab/statuses/116559602810774001</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[vk6flab@mastodon.radio]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:59:52 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:47:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> 🥲</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://metalhead.club/users/dereisenhofer/statuses/116559553579598731</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://metalhead.club/users/dereisenhofer/statuses/116559553579598731</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dereisenhofer@metalhead.club]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:47:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:29:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> not only that, some of the homes I made myself and crumbled due to my own neglect!</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/mrencyclopedia/statuses/116559484896685283</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://retro.pizza/users/mrencyclopedia/statuses/116559484896685283</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mrencyclopedia@retro.pizza]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:29:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:26:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/jordan%40mastodon.subj.am">@<span>jordan</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/mark%40tacobelllabs.net">@<span>mark</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> And BBSes.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://masto.hackers.town/users/drwho/statuses/116559471570681373</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://masto.hackers.town/users/drwho/statuses/116559471570681373</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[drwho@masto.hackers.town]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:26:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:26:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> Yep. Very much so. </p><p>The only durable stuff is the things that I built with a couple of old friends that we hid away.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://masto.hackers.town/users/drwho/statuses/116559469715346247</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://masto.hackers.town/users/drwho/statuses/116559469715346247</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[drwho@masto.hackers.town]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:26:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:23:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">@krejgo@mojos.eco <a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/mark%40tacobelllabs.net" aria-label="Profile: mark@tacobelllabs.net">@<bdi>mark@tacobelllabs.net</bdi></a> <a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io" aria-label="Profile: evacide@hachyderm.io">@<bdi>evacide@hachyderm.io</bdi></a> Re: Usenet: I went there, I saw, I stayed a while, and I fucked off.</p>
<p dir="auto">There’s probably a reason Mark did, too. #lang_en</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://bv.umbrellix.org/objects/4acf4e30-3d1d-47bf-9c30-bdf1e7a75764</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://bv.umbrellix.org/objects/4acf4e30-3d1d-47bf-9c30-bdf1e7a75764</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[lightning@bv.umbrellix.org]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:23:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over. on Tue, 12 May 2026 03:14:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/evacide%40hachyderm.io">@<span>evacide</span></a></span> I started a blog again. This time in my mid/late 40s. This time it's really gonna... ah hell, who am I kidding.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/115859836528895893/statuses/116559425103473916</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/115859836528895893/statuses/116559425103473916</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tooks@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 03:14:40 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>