<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box!]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>We're getting a new cheese box!</p><p>For real: it's so chill to do adulting by commission <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":-)" alt="🙂" /> One of us (the working group) researches the matter. Eventually they prepare a short presentation outlining requirements and offering a limited number of options.</p><p>Then together (management group) we.. just decide without having an existential crisis about accidentally buying the wrong cheese box and destroying all hope for future happiness of humanity. It's nice.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/WeGotPowerPointAtHome" rel="tag">#<span>WeGotPowerPointAtHome</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/6a55eb99-7b4f-48a3-bade-428f52b84e89/we-re-getting-a-new-cheese-box</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 15:07:34 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/6a55eb99-7b4f-48a3-bade-428f52b84e89.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 05:58:49 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 17:28:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> <br />I do the same thing as your colleagues - Holland in Danish, Netherlands in England. And I say "Niederlande" in German <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="🤷" alt="🤷" /><img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f3fc.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--skin-tone-3" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="🏼" alt="🏼" />‍<img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2640.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--female_sign" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="♀" alt="♀" />️</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://helvede.net/users/MThaastrup/statuses/116642053381562767</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://helvede.net/users/MThaastrup/statuses/116642053381562767</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mthaastrup@helvede.net]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 17:28:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 17:19:09 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> when I moved to your country, my employer kindly gave me documentation on what "life in Holland" is like. My employer is located in one of the remaining 10 provinces, one that prides itself on having a different culture than "above the rivers". I suspect that they tried to water it down for stomme expats who can't understand het verschil tussen Holland en Nederland.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.edu.nl/users/raphv/statuses/116642018078259206</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.edu.nl/users/raphv/statuses/116642018078259206</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[raphv@social.edu.nl]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 17:19:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:37:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> …. Maybe you should think of it as a business opportunity <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f914.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--thinking_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="🤔" alt="🤔" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641855476045162</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641855476045162</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sorenhave@mastodon.nu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:37:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:36:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> Ah, no, haven’t seen such one. In any case I guess the weight needs to be somewhat higher for cheese than for a pepper.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641851184624116</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641851184624116</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sorenhave@mastodon.nu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:36:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:33:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/sorenhave%40mastodon.nu">@<span>sorenhave</span></a></span> Nice but I'm more thinking of a real guillotine; something with a *chop*.</p><p>A bit like our sausage / vegetable cutter: <a href="https://mastodon.online/@Pepijn/113102642075046996" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>mastodon.online/@Pepijn/113102</span><span>642075046996</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641838952424908</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641838952424908</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:33:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:24:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> </p><p>I grew up in the south (Eindhoven), but to immigrant parents. In Spanish the word for the Netherlands is colloquially also just "Holanda", so like, I guess I'm extra primed that it's basically the same.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.yosh.is/users/yosh/statuses/116641805053981262</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.yosh.is/users/yosh/statuses/116641805053981262</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[yosh@toot.yosh.is]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:24:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:22:35 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> Like this?</p><p>(Note; HW Larsen is *the* place to shop pro kitchen utensils. We go there mainly to get our knives sharpened though)</p><p><a href="https://www.hwl.dk/osteskaerer-50288?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=21664578450&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADjfwwZvDRL1UAoYLSyUINe3lkA3Y&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwidXQBhAZEiwA4egw6LKCqh0_SzqmpNFESZC6vn_GtJyB86Fg5BLunkwJRtmrepiWcC03oxoCcQcQAvD_BwE" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://www.</span><span>hwl.dk/osteskaerer-50288?gad_s</span><span>ource=1&amp;gad_campaignid=21664578450&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADjfwwZvDRL1UAoYLSyUINe3lkA3Y&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwidXQBhAZEiwA4egw6LKCqh0_SzqmpNFESZC6vn_GtJyB86Fg5BLunkwJRtmrepiWcC03oxoCcQcQAvD_BwE</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641795623109608</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116641795623109608</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sorenhave@mastodon.nu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:22:35 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:19:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/yosh%40toot.yosh.is">@<span>yosh</span></a></span> </p><p>&gt;"Holland" feels like the informal version of "Nederland", so while not technically correct it does feel like it's culturally okay.</p><p>Maybe. I think there's strong regional differences though. Where I grew up (the northern provinces) people would say "the Netherlands" and then quickly add a soft: ", Holland" if the receiver looked even a little bit confused.</p><p>But yeah, no-one will get angry etc.</p><p>&gt; "Ik hou van Holland"</p><p>I admit I had to look that one up. Apparently a long running TV show!</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641783199266246</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641783199266246</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:19:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:15:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/mthaastrup%40helvede.net">@<span>MThaastrup</span></a></span> I've been intrigued how smooth Danes deal with this:</p><p>Many of my Danish colleagues say Holland in Danish, and without even thinking about it say Netherlands when they speak English.</p><p>Very different than, for example, Germans who seem to stick to either Holland or Netherlands/Niederlanden in both English and German.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641768746168761</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641768746168761</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:15:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:13:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> I would only use Holland if referring to that specific state. Otherwise I'd say Netherlands.</p><p>Kinda strange because the only example I can think of for somewhere like Germany is Bavaria, and that's probably in certain circumstances. Austria, Switzerland, France I can't think of where it'd be used. I wouldn't use Wallonia/Flanders to describe the whole of Belgium either.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://zug.network/users/Kilometer780/statuses/116641760835703553</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://zug.network/users/Kilometer780/statuses/116641760835703553</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kilometer780@zug.network]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:13:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:12:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> The problem probably is, that we call the entire country "Holland" in Danish? So in Denmark the origin labeling would be correct.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://helvede.net/users/MThaastrup/statuses/116641751911833367</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://helvede.net/users/MThaastrup/statuses/116641751911833367</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mthaastrup@helvede.net]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:12:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:06:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> Until fairly recently it still was the "official" branding, so especially in 2014 it would've been "technically correct" from a marketing perspective <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holland" rel="nofollow noopener"><span>https://</span><span>en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holland</span><span></span></a>.</p><p>&gt; In January 2020, the Netherlands officially dropped its support of the word Holland for the whole country</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nl/users/arjjra/statuses/116641731614271771</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nl/users/arjjra/statuses/116641731614271771</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[arjjra@mastodon.nl]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:06:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 16:03:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> </p><p>"Holland" feels like the informal version of "Nederland", so while not technically correct it does feel like it's culturally okay.</p><p>Think of phrases like: "Ik hou van Holland" (TV), "Hup Holland hup", etc. All of those are about the country, not provinces, and used by people in the entire country.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.yosh.is/users/yosh/statuses/116641721240693222</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.yosh.is/users/yosh/statuses/116641721240693222</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[yosh@toot.yosh.is]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 16:03:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 15:57:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Question about advertising and origin labeling:</p><p>We bought a cheese-box produced by Mepal. Their factory is located in the Netherlands. In a province called Gelderland*.</p><p>On the bottom of the product it says "Made in Holland". Which is factually incorrect*.</p><p>While I could not care less about the Netherlands / Holland distinction in spoken word it kinda "feels" wrong seeing it on a product.</p><p>What do you think?</p><p>*Noord- / Zuid-Holland are just two of twelve provinces.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/holland" rel="tag">#<span>holland</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/netherlands" rel="tag">#<span>netherlands</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641696269586066</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641696269586066</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 15:57:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Tue, 26 May 2026 15:23:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>OF ALL THE CHEESES TO PICK FROM!</p><p>The chosen cheese-box is now part of the family.</p><p>I'm somewhat intrigued by the marketing image on the box. Of all the cheeses to display inside this premium box they went with what in appearance is an extremely young, almost wet, industrial yellow cheese.</p><p>There's also a weird fork and a text promoting the included cutting board. No knife or slicer is shown.</p><p>While I have your attention: do share if you know of a place selling table-top-cheese-guillotines.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641561374410981</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116641561374410981</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 15:23:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 16:12:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> ‘Friction’ carrying a lot of weight there <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f62c.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--grimacing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😬" alt="😬" /></p><p><span><a href="/user/juliette%40mastodon.green">@<span>juliette</span></a></span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116607783961077243</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nu/users/sorenhave/statuses/116607783961077243</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sorenhave@mastodon.nu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 16:12:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 14:42:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> Yeah, at least my brain is somewhat healthy not to compare lines to each other all the time. I don't envy you for that, although I need to set timers to remind me of a windows i opened 10 minutes ago...</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607427055100412</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607427055100412</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fataqe@mas.to]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 14:42:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 13:57:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> also, I had to laugh at 'we don't have much choice' after you told us about your carefully researched presentation to choose the cheese box <img class="not-responsive emoji" src="https://media.mas.to/custom_emojis/images/000/347/894/original/a072e4eddb79408b.gif" title=":ablobgrin:" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607251007330411</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607251007330411</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fataqe@mas.to]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 13:57:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 13:54:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> *staring at my round coffee table, eyes twitching*</p><p>I like the things I have from Mepal. They are very square-y! And as I don't need it on my coffee table that's handy.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607239760589531</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116607239760589531</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fataqe@mas.to]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 13:54:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 12:03:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> enjoyed this although I don't know why.<br />I never put a pen sideways (sideways to what??) on purpose and it would not at all do anything. </p><p>So you chose the Mepal box?</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116606802347651778</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mas.to/users/fataqe/statuses/116606802347651778</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fataqe@mas.to]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 12:03:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 09:28:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/juliette%40mastodon.green">@<span>juliette</span></a></span> </p><p>My partner's system is to keep it all in memory and feeling overwhelmed and exhausted about it.</p><p>My system is to write it down and then forget about it, or - my best system yet - do it immediately, as in RIGHT NOW.</p><p>I will sometimes be asked to think about something for a few days, which does not ever happen. I can think about it now, spend a few hours diving into it if it's important enough for that and then make a decision, or I can forget about it until some calendar event reminds me to think about it again. </p><p>On the plus side I am very good at making decisions - I will think about it for some period of time determined by the importance of the decision, then I will make a decision, and I will never doubt that decision or consider it again.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.dk/ap/users/115904213986136232/statuses/116606193461949152</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.dk/ap/users/115904213986136232/statuses/116606193461949152</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[carstenboll@mstdn.dk]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 09:28:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 09:23:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/carstenboll%40mstdn.dk">@<span>CarstenBoll</span></a></span> It very much much pre-dates the existence of our hobbit and even our cohabitation. As far as I remember this is how I have always done things. It's faster than writing and easier to implement.</p><p>Slightly askew pens are just an example of the method. Other ways are stacking items etc.  </p><p><span><a href="/user/juliette%40mastodon.green">@<span>juliette</span></a></span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116606174674402165</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116606174674402165</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 09:23:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 09:23:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/slothrop%40chaos.social">@<span>slothrop</span></a></span> Item 4 is the magical bit <img src="https://forum.fedi.dk/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=7979fdcf9c7" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p><p><span><a href="/user/juliette%40mastodon.green">@<span>juliette</span></a></span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116606172031773295</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/Pepijn/statuses/116606172031773295</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pepijn@mastodon.online]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 09:23:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to We&#x27;re getting a new cheese box! on Wed, 20 May 2026 09:17:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/pepijn%40mastodon.online">@<span>Pepijn</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/juliette%40mastodon.green">@<span>juliette</span></a></span> My wife and I have a similar set of characteristics.</p><p>We’ve eventually arrived at the following methodology:</p><p>0. Some decision is needed<br />1. one of us brings it up.<br />    A) one of us has strong views on the matter &gt; they share them<br />    B) no one has strong views <br />2. The matter rests for a while<br />3. one of us feels like taking the decision. If it’s big, we do another review loop<br />4. One of us goes and does the thing. The other person doesn’t complain about how they did it.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://chaos.social/users/slothrop/statuses/116606149490088010</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://chaos.social/users/slothrop/statuses/116606149490088010</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[slothrop@chaos.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 09:17:18 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>