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]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/96e1f6a1-3f3b-473e-8042-ad15d621e58f/thisRSS for NodeMon, 12 Oct 2026 00:24:17 GMTThu, 01 Oct 2026 10:44:43 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:44:59 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.bida.im/users/rabenmutterschafft/statuses/117366187579582198https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.bida.im/users/rabenmutterschafft/statuses/117366187579582198Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:44:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:18:24 GMT]]>@ForgottenHero I'm sorry you had to read that aggressiveness. I'm just trying not to be one of the silent ones.

@EndlessMason @Natasha_Jay

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.vivaldi.net/users/everton137/statuses/117366083073895321https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.vivaldi.net/users/everton137/statuses/117366083073895321Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:18:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:10:50 GMT]]>@wishchain @Natasha_Jay I am sorry to ask, but what language is this? I pasted your text in my translator and it returned unintelligible.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/JakeKb/statuses/117366053289469855https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/JakeKb/statuses/117366053289469855Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:10:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:03:29 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay WelcomePlease help us, we need food and we are crying from hunger. Please, if$20 πŸ‡΅πŸ‡ΈπŸ₯ΉπŸ€”

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://cyberplace.social/ap/users/117333463091909245/statuses/117366024402814079https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://cyberplace.social/ap/users/117333463091909245/statuses/117366024402814079Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:03:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:45:09 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay Be happy to not be one of those woman and take what men do πŸ˜‰
If you would be one of those manipulative woman, they wouldnt even be sexual to you! For woman it looks like those manipulative woman who even want to call their terrorism a carreer are normal!understandable in things of the wide amount of people who got no idea bout the system!
but, if you maybe remember the stories saying that you shall recycle all your old things and buy new ones for th world not dies?! It was woman!

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117096987707589466/statuses/117365952304152603https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117096987707589466/statuses/117365952304152603Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:45:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:39:55 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay you shouldnt wonder! It's woman who are attempting to hype feminism that only exists cause of the digital thievery on other people! Its woman, every day mentally using the genitals of others to be able to think when using dicks muscles mentally as brain making impotent the men globall step by step. It's woman, every day trying to control mind and movement of men globally while mentally being with hackers who steal and manipulate whole world.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117096987707589466/statuses/117365931732711679https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117096987707589466/statuses/117365931732711679Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:39:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:39:46 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay how could one differentiate a group of 10 men that had a conflict about this sexual joke, from one that hasn't? "Most men are the same" seems like a vibes-based conclusion.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/budududuroiu/statuses/117365931149727544https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/budududuroiu/statuses/117365931149727544Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:39:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:37:18 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay and everyone who speaks up is branded as white knighting by both men and women

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/Kierkegaanks/statuses/117365921471462747https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/Kierkegaanks/statuses/117365921471462747Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:37:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:31:53 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay waiting for the "but not all men are like that" comment

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/toufy/statuses/117365900119990852https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://beige.party/users/toufy/statuses/117365900119990852Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:31:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:30:27 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay the woman concludes all men are rapists and posts it on social media. A story as old as time .

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116992283229733886/statuses/117365894507525547https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116992283229733886/statuses/117365894507525547Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:30:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:27:14 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay

bears

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/samiamsam/statuses/117365881875227521https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/samiamsam/statuses/117365881875227521Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:27:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:26:51 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay What practical things can we do to be better? I'm after specifics.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116764689181584498/statuses/117365880365923884https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116764689181584498/statuses/117365880365923884Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:26:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:07:29 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay @Serena a quick question such as - would you be willing to say this if the woman (and her husband?) was standing here? May help lower the willingness to insult and helps show the cowardice of the comment to the others in the room.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Rickd6/statuses/117365804231536661https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Rickd6/statuses/117365804231536661Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:07:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:01:28 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay @Robotistry the β€˜act’ of silence is not a strong enough objection for the offensive individual to change their behavior. Even if there’s no one supporting them in that situation they will just voice it again later hopeful of finding a receptive audience.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Rickd6/statuses/117365780550551651https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.ca/users/Rickd6/statuses/117365780550551651Thu, 01 Oct 2026 13:01:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:21:37 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay And the manosphere is so upset about the idea of trans women, because they know we have the receipts. We have been around men when they thought there were only other men around. We know how much worse they are when they think there are no women in the room.

Some of us tried to push back on misogyny, and were told, β€œit’s a joke,” β€œdon’t get your panties in a twist,” or were β€œplayfully” threatened and insulted. Treated the way they treat women. And while the predators were doing this, a few of the others either chuckled along or were silent. Very occasionally, there would be one man who would agree that misogyny was unacceptable. Once a second had spoken up against the predator, the tide quickly turned. This was unfortunately not a frequency occurrence.

Men, if you aren’t actively tryjng to shut down misogyny every time you hear it, no matter the impact that pushback might have on you, then your silence will be seen as tacit acceptance by the other men. And however much you might think you are one of the β€œgood guys,” you will be furthering misogyny.

Good men speak up. Good men know it is not β€œjust a joke.” Good men don’t let other men demean women, whether or not they think there are women present.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/ap/users/116326866348608951/statuses/117365623870730214https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://lgbtqia.space/ap/users/116326866348608951/statuses/117365623870730214Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:21:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:12:39 GMT]]>@EndlessMason @Natasha_Jay

I think you need to mansplain that to me.

Without the insult would be good.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.wales/users/ForgottenHero/statuses/117365588582634022https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://toot.wales/users/ForgottenHero/statuses/117365588582634022Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:12:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:11:44 GMT]]>@moritzboth @Natasha_Jay
Rhiannon Ingle, writing for Tyla attributes the quote to https://www.tiktok.com/@brookcore/video/7610160857284201742 .

I don't know whether the journalist verified that it was written by this toktoker. I don't have an account, otherwise I'd reach out.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://stranger.social/users/famq/statuses/117365584998831362https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://stranger.social/users/famq/statuses/117365584998831362Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:11:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:09:12 GMT]]>@ForgottenHero Speaking from the perspective of a bullying target, rather than a woman, which seems similar to me in many situations:
a bullying target often doesn't want somebody else to decide when and how to fight their fights. They might instead want the reassurance, that they can pick the fight that concerns them when they feel it is the right moment, and the others have _their_ back, instead of the bully's.

Hope that's not too far off @Natasha_Jay

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.gamedev.place/ap/users/116059571717705272/statuses/117365575020012531https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.gamedev.place/ap/users/116059571717705272/statuses/117365575020012531Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:09:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:05:34 GMT]]>@moritzboth
Yeah. It resonated. As a trans woman I've been one of the four quiet ones in a past life.

I sat there. So I know how true this is, and feel it in my bones.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/Natasha_Jay/statuses/117365560721372924https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/Natasha_Jay/statuses/117365560721372924Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:05:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:05:33 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay
I've been a woman in the room with two men, when one has referred to the other's pregnant wife so offensively that I would have thought it would have caused a major breach, and I was silent.

It's hard to know what to say in the moment, when you're reeling from shock that someone thought that was an okay thing to say to anyone, much less a colleague or friend.

I don't believe any of the three of us in that conversation were "good guys". I do think the insulting guy thought he was being funny, and the other guy was his friend and took it in that spirit. And I felt like it was his role to speak out, since it was his wife and he would know better than I just how upset (or not) she'd be about it.

But since then, I've tried to be more prepared to speak out.

And speaking out has been a tremendous relief, even as it has lost me opportunities. It feels like putting the emotional work of coping with their words back on their shoulders, where it belongs.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://fediscience.org/ap/users/116273813905610513/statuses/117365560663649574https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://fediscience.org/ap/users/116273813905610513/statuses/117365560663649574Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:05:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:58:52 GMT]]>@luc0x61 @Natasha_Jay
It's not working because you're not doing it tho

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/EndlessMason/statuses/117365534359885358https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/EndlessMason/statuses/117365534359885358Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:58:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:58:07 GMT]]>@Natasha_Jay I've been thinking a lot about how racism works the same. It's really impressive how easy of a time people have pretending like discrimination isn't happening even though it's happening everywhere all the time. I feel like the system is upheld most by people who remain silent.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117287360902397430/statuses/117365531420509777https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117287360902397430/statuses/117365531420509777Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:58:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:54:07 GMT]]>@ForgottenHero @Natasha_Jay
Sounds like you're doing good work

Quick note though, being "against the manosphere" doesn't read quite right when you've just used the term "females" like a ferengi or a nature documentarian or a straight up manosphere chud

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/EndlessMason/statuses/117365515732443860https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/EndlessMason/statuses/117365515732443860Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:54:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to ThisπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ on Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:48:47 GMT]]>@luc0x61 @Natasha_Jay I believe it's not so much about 'educating' the one male person but to support the women

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://don.linxx.net/users/Schafstelze/statuses/117365494736213071https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://don.linxx.net/users/Schafstelze/statuses/117365494736213071Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:48:47 GMT