<![CDATA[I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry.]]>I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry.

Guess I won't be asking that person for help or advice on anything anymore. Enshittification happens in people's writing skills too, I guess.

I also have absolutely no idea how to respond to them. If you're that far down the genAI black hole I don't think pointing out the ethical/environmental/cognitive issues will help. Fuck.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/a332fd17-c250-4d76-bf8e-6b2f25f5166a/i-asked-a-trusted-colleague-for-comments-on-a-written-document-and-they-fed-it-in-to-chatgpt-and-sent-me-back-that-output-and-i-just-want-to-cry.RSS for NodeFri, 23 Oct 2026 14:47:57 GMTMon, 12 Oct 2026 15:57:49 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:22:04 GMT]]>@sundogplanets it's like trying to convince a sports fan to cheer for their opposing team. Not a rational discussion.

I'd probably take the approach of, "Thanks for the feedback, but I wasn't looking for something I could do (ask an LLM, email a different person, etc.). I was asking you. I was looking for the weight of your specific knowledge. Your specific experience. If you don't have time to offer that, just tell me you don't have time."

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://fosstodon.org/users/djwfyi/statuses/117433337409098347https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://fosstodon.org/users/djwfyi/statuses/117433337409098347Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:22:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:14:47 GMT]]>@skjeggtroll @sundogplanets 'hurtful' just gets dismissed, I'd be honest and replace 'hurtful' with 'stupid' because at least that has a chance of festering in their brain a little.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.scot/users/Bumblefish/statuses/117433308772876430https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.scot/users/Bumblefish/statuses/117433308772876430Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:14:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:10:01 GMT]]>@sundogplanets Perhaps send them a mushroom quiche, picked and prepared following a slopbot recipe, by way of thanks?

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nl/users/js/statuses/117433290024175466https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.nl/users/js/statuses/117433290024175466Tue, 13 Oct 2026 11:10:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:58:17 GMT]]>@sundogplanets Wow ! There are a lot of comments ! And I have not seen one pointing at the site I stumble upon few weeks ago which helped me in the same situation :
https://dontpastetheai.com/

The colleague I had to face was one I could have been friend with so I chose the agressive version. Maybe I broke something between us from his point of view but since then he did not share his AI answers again.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://piaille.fr/users/molusk/statuses/117433243890760197https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://piaille.fr/users/molusk/statuses/117433243890760197Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:58:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:31:28 GMT]]>@sundogplanets "thanks meatproxy!"

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.linux.pizza/users/bws/statuses/117433138432862513https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.linux.pizza/users/bws/statuses/117433138432862513Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:31:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:25:44 GMT]]>@sundogplanets Why have a conversation? I'd look them dead in the eyes and pry off the Control key and the V key off their keyboard, and then empty 16oz of full sugar Coca-Cola onto it, never breaking eye contact.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/thankfulmachine/statuses/117433115920047315https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/thankfulmachine/statuses/117433115920047315Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:25:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:18:07 GMT]]>@sundogplanets We are seriously doomed as a species… I feel like this war has already been lost.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://digitalcourage.social/ap/users/117268306812904998/statuses/117433085954246613https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://digitalcourage.social/ap/users/117268306812904998/statuses/117433085954246613Tue, 13 Oct 2026 10:18:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 08:46:23 GMT]]>@eryops @raymaccarthy @RegGuy @sundogplanets Yes, fuck 'em. There's a difference between someone you thought you could trust gaily handing your stuff to a thief, and a pickpocket filching your wallet while you're having a conversation on the street.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.scot/users/ravenbait/statuses/117432725255592013https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.scot/users/ravenbait/statuses/117432725255592013Tue, 13 Oct 2026 08:46:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 07:56:07 GMT]]>@frincon @sundogplanets @ravenbait Sure, I use my own domain too. Some of the external addressees for my correspondence have a gmail address. If you correspond with them then the text of your email, all the to and fro responses between you with times and dates - and those of any other people on the distribution list (maybe from other highly secure institutional servers) are owned by Google.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tooting.ch/users/Jeffrey/statuses/117432527584598807https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tooting.ch/users/Jeffrey/statuses/117432527584598807Tue, 13 Oct 2026 07:56:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 07:06:55 GMT]]>@sundogplanets @bsdphk I had a similar problem, a lawyer that was helping me do an important task casually sent me an update which went : „hey the free version of chatgpt had issues reading your handwriting to translate the document, I asked a colleague to try their paid one but still had issues, can you please send me an MS word version?“

My answer was the one two of this thread comments combined: „I don’t appreciate that my very personal data are now shared with openAI and a random colleague of yours, I was expecting much better understanding for this matter from a lawyer. I would ask you if you want to continue to never do this again without my permission and just translate documents manually“

They fired me as a customer, but we are both happier now 😁

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.treehouse.systems/users/xsk/statuses/117432334091263744https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.treehouse.systems/users/xsk/statuses/117432334091263744Tue, 13 Oct 2026 07:06:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 06:48:15 GMT]]>@sundogplanets AI is perfect for those who want to be, or pretend to be, so much more than what they are. Its not necessarily a slight.

There is only so much time in a day, if we, through lack of oversight, or through intent, stretch ourselves.

AI is currently being marketed as the anti void that can fill those gaps.

Not sure what this means for the real connection between us humans though.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/Berilious/statuses/117432260690533037https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/Berilious/statuses/117432260690533037Tue, 13 Oct 2026 06:48:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 06:06:11 GMT]]>@datarama @iamnmm @sundogplanets

Have you seen _Mrs Davis_? It came out like nine months after chat gpt and it has people "channeling" for the AI.

It was so, so good.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/eestileib/statuses/117432095281862000https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/eestileib/statuses/117432095281862000Tue, 13 Oct 2026 06:06:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 04:25:02 GMT]]>@sundogplanets fuck! What a kick in the guts. Trusted to untrusted in one interaction. I feel your pain – I dread asking for feedback these days in case it ends up being The Reveal 😞

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.europlus.zone/users/europlus/statuses/117431697575215760https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://social.europlus.zone/users/europlus/statuses/117431697575215760Tue, 13 Oct 2026 04:25:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 03:42:45 GMT]]>@diazona
Apparently 'they' for an unknown individual has been in use for a long time. Like we have examples from the 1300s in middle English through to the late 1700s when someone decided the generic pronoun should be 'he'.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117159124915324830/statuses/117431531332729911https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/117159124915324830/statuses/117431531332729911Tue, 13 Oct 2026 03:42:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 01:42:17 GMT]]>@sundogplanets some will sell their dreams for small desires

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/schtaks/statuses/117431057643714509https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/schtaks/statuses/117431057643714509Tue, 13 Oct 2026 01:42:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Tue, 13 Oct 2026 01:00:00 GMT]]>@sundogplanets It always sucks when trust is lost from someone that held it with respect previously. Sorry that person failed to respect you and broke that trust.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/atraidez/statuses/117430891342811895https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/atraidez/statuses/117430891342811895Tue, 13 Oct 2026 01:00:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 23:51:52 GMT]]>@sundogplanets Like other knowledge, social norms propagate across human networks unevenly over time. You already experienced the wave of spreading AI risk awareness. You can defend yourself from risk or, your call, be a carrier.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/evanwolf/statuses/117430623405957590https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/evanwolf/statuses/117430623405957590Mon, 12 Oct 2026 23:51:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 23:16:48 GMT]]>@sundogplanets I suspect a colleague does the same to me. Do they not think that we could just do that ourselves if that’s what we wanted? 🙃

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/catnip/statuses/117430485530307176https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/catnip/statuses/117430485530307176Mon, 12 Oct 2026 23:16:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:51:10 GMT]]>@sundogplanets I think just telling them that you sent this to them in private not for them to share with third parties and that you're hurt that they didn't respect that would get the point across (and maybe make them think about what constitutes "third parties" and why they don't think their chatbot's owners count) without even bringing up AI.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/dalias/statuses/117430384725744630https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/dalias/statuses/117430384725744630Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:51:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:47:20 GMT]]>@sundogplanets

That was a passive-agressive response. They could have just said no time or interest in doing review.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/SpaceLifeForm/statuses/117430369656490287https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/SpaceLifeForm/statuses/117430369656490287Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:47:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:35:27 GMT]]>@raymaccarthy @RegGuy @ravenbait @sundogplanets Was the original manuscript written in Word? Google Docs? sent via e-mail on a Microsoft or Google platform? Do any of these companies, even if they trumpet FERPA compliance, restrict what they feed their AI?

I really don't think you can hope for anonymity and a scrape-free experience in 2026 unless you're using LibreOffice on a system unplugged from the net.

But no. Fuck this "colleague."

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://dice.camp/users/eryops/statuses/117430322938648755https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://dice.camp/users/eryops/statuses/117430322938648755Mon, 12 Oct 2026 22:35:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:47:13 GMT]]>@sundogplanets - perhaps, hear me out…SUCKERSIMA GOATAND NOW YOUR ASS HURTS!!… no really, as if all political tweets, and toots aren’t at least facetimed…and good old Academic footnotes (YAY TEAM HARRIS) should be showing your work - keylogging and real time progress like the proud and frustrated of this superbombastic Mastadon often provide to the delight of those lovers of the real light

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/WilliamBob/statuses/117430133267711930https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.social/users/WilliamBob/statuses/117430133267711930Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:47:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:31:33 GMT]]>@sundogplanets On top of everything else about AI, what makes me sad is how much it has endangered digital communication because at any moment, anyone anywhere can just read your work into the slop system and then it’s stuck there. It’s a billion points of failure weighed against the basic necessity of scientific collaboration.

And they think it helps you, or them, or even the model, but it just makes everything more insular, and that sucks.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/WhiteCatTamer/statuses/117430071715495397https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mastodon.online/users/WhiteCatTamer/statuses/117430071715495397Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:31:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I asked a trusted colleague for comments on a written document and they fed it in to chatGPT and sent me back that output and I just want to cry. on Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:30:38 GMT]]>@sundogplanets I mean... "if I wanted chatgpt's output I could have gotten that myself. I wanted *your* thoughts" seems to the point. Sometimes I think people need to experience the pushback. We all need friction or we'd be the worst versions of ourselves

many hugs

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/autonomousapps/statuses/117430068074280977https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.social/users/autonomousapps/statuses/117430068074280977Mon, 12 Oct 2026 21:30:38 GMT