<![CDATA[Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me.]]>Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me. Everyone is telling children that they're cis, repeatedly, hard, insistently, like a chorus of total negation. If a kid manages to figure out that they're trans in spite of every fucking thing in the world telling them they aren't trans, it wasn't because someone told them they were trans. The most they likely ever heard, and it's not all that likely, is that it's okay to be trans.

But you know that already. You don't want anyone to stop telling children they're trans, because no one does that. What you want is for it not to be okay to be trans.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/topic/b8cacc0f-d5cb-4303-b75e-51cfbae08adc/oh-honey-no-one-is-telling-children-they-re-trans.-trust-me.RSS for NodeFri, 12 Jun 2026 02:43:39 GMTSun, 31 May 2026 20:38:53 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me. on Mon, 01 Jun 2026 05:10:24 GMT]]>@YouShallNotPass This, so much this.

My first exposure to transness was characters in Bollywood movies who were child kidnappers or just bad/villainous people, and that really fucked up my worldview for quite some time.

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/properlypurple/statuses/116673126372862493https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://tech.lgbt/users/properlypurple/statuses/116673126372862493Mon, 01 Jun 2026 05:10:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me. on Mon, 01 Jun 2026 03:21:32 GMT]]>@YouShallNotPass I'm sorry you had to go through that, and that as a society we're still putting people through that. 🫂

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/spiegelmama/statuses/116672698262527719https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/spiegelmama/statuses/116672698262527719Mon, 01 Jun 2026 03:21:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me. on Mon, 01 Jun 2026 03:10:51 GMT]]>@YouShallNotPass

]]>https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.games/users/kinsale42/statuses/116672656289731602https://forum.fedi.dk/post/https://mstdn.games/users/kinsale42/statuses/116672656289731602Mon, 01 Jun 2026 03:10:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Oh honey, no one is telling children they're trans. Trust me. on Sun, 31 May 2026 20:38:53 GMT]]>No one told me I was trans. I wish someone had told me when I was young enough for it to have mattered. And the message I got from society certainly wasn't, "You might possibly be trans." It was, "Yes, there are a few trans people and they are freaks and jokes and you can't possibly be trans."

I hope that might have improved a little. I think some kids get a more balanced message, like, "There are trans people and that's okay." (That's slightly sarcastic.) Hell, "Trans people are freaks and jokes," is still an improvement over, "There are no trans people."

But sweet fuck, statistically speaking, no one is telling kids, "You are trans." No one is even telling them, "You might be trans." That's a made-up fear. But again, the people who made it up know that.

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