Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

Y'all want women on Fedi? Fight that shit. I can't do it for you.

[nlupo@amikejo.xyz]

@vkc I am if I find who do such things.

[eq@mas.to]

@vkc And this is the real reason why we can't have nice things. Internet is such an eye opener. Take care and don't let the idiots get you. I'm sorry we humans are such a letdown.

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

@eq "don't let the idiots get you" - do you see how that puts it on me?

I trust you mean well, but respectfully: no. The correct response is "men should fight back when they see this amongst themselves."

It isn't my responsibility to "not let them get me down." It's men who need to step up and fight this battle.

[eq@mas.to]

@vkc Yes I understand that. I did rewrite it a few times but I'm just not good enough with words, I'm sorry. (edit: not sarcasm)

[mxverda@lgbtqia.space]

@eq @vkc idk how much it helps (if at all), but it might help to focus on the problem (excluding behaviours) rather than groups (humans are a let down).
Like... less "the situation will always be shit" ("we can't have nice things") and more "That sounds very frustrating; I don't wish that for you or anyone else".
Maybe with a dash of "I try to fight it where I can, but XYZ tends to happen. Anyone got any advice while we're on the topic?"
Or "I might try [whatever other suggestions]."

Idk. I'm not an expert

[lucydev@wetdry.world]

@vkc the internet is quite the cesspool sometimes. I'm sorry you had to go through that

[alex02@elonsucks.org]

@vkc starting to feel like majority also don't want gen z on here either.

[cyberwitch@goingdark.social]

@vkc with all the bragging about how fedi is built so it can defederate and cut out unmoderated instances, maybe they should try it sometime.

[alex02@elonsucks.org]

@vkc the hostility toward gen z in general has ramped up, but yet these whiney bitches want gen z to clean up their mess while straight up abusing gen z claiming this is what all generations do which is just manipulation.

[vkc@linuxmom.net]

@alex02 you're threadjacking, feel free to post your critique on your own post. I'm out here talking about sexism, that's a whole different problem.

[cataclock@wetdry.world]

@vkc ah jesus... I'm sorry you had to go through that. Some people should go outside.

[kernelkebap@mastodon.social]

@vkc I didn’t see that. What was said?
Edit: how did the sexual harassment look like?

[alex02@elonsucks.org]

@vkc no it is not and quite frankly your response is quite obnoxious. If we can't talk about problems collectively on this shithole platform and only talk about one thing at a time than it becomes loose islands among the rest of the sewage, but fine whatever. Thank you for proving my point about how hostile this place is becoming with all you morons whining, but yet do this type of shit. Anyways, enjoy the block. I generally don't care.

[em0nm4stodon@infosec.exchange]

@vkc @neil

[marud@social.marud.fr]

@vkc what the actual f is wrong with humanity

[cyberwitch@goingdark.social]

and also, I've noticed POC on Mastodon with similar complaints that are, similarly, minimized or ignored. The Fediverse culture is showing some large-scale bad patterns here. "Progressive" communities and platforms need to quit ignoring and tone-policing people when issues arise.

[haltroy@mastodon.social]

@vkc I hope you are doing OK, I had no idea that other people on Fedi to be this bad. I thought since it's userbase is more smarter I wouldn't guessed this would happen.

I'd be cool if Mastodon had a "list" feature like bsky does, where you can add people to there and auto-block/mute them. Kinda useful thing, especially on these.

[jirikiha@raphus.social]

@vkc men, do better.

Be a man in the internet. Talk about what you like. Cars, weather, trains, sports. See how the replies are on topic.

Be a woman on the internet. Talk about what you like.
Cars, weather, trains, sports. See the replies talking about your boobs. See the DMs filled with, "hey baby", and unsolicited dick pics.

If you are a man, you won't see most - or any! - of what women experience daily online. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Your just in a safe little bubble of privilege. Own it, and do better.

[midtsveen@social.linux.pizza]

@vkc Apparently women are “too woke.” Well, I love women, so I guess that makes me woke too. Extra woke, even. Maximum wokeness, omg. ️ ️‍ Haters gonna hate regardless, be you! ️