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  • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

    Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

    What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

    What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

    This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

    "Just block them" doesn't work.

    alex@pawb.funA This user is from outside of this forum
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    #26

    @FediTips No, it really doesn't.

    (I could tell you stories of being on the receiving end [not on here], but I won't.)

    People are gonna do whatever they want if they believe they're justified in doing it. They don't think 'maybe I shouldn't do this because I'd be really upset it if it was done to me'. (that would imply empathy where it doesn't exist)

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    • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

      @FediTips
      Thats not only an issue with individual attacks but also with disinfo. People will spread lies, if you confront them, they block you and just go on.

      The same happens in the real world. There you might try to sue them but ultimately, there is no escape from liars and bad actors. We need to take away the reason for this by eliminating the oppressive system.

      Frantz Fanon wrote about this in wretched of the earth. Oppression leads to intra group violence.

      Otherwise i suggest bluesky

      alex@pawb.funA This user is from outside of this forum
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      #27

      @haui @FediTips

      Bluesky as in 'the place that welcomes transphobes [Jesse Singal comes to mind, see: the 'waffles' controversy where the CEO refuses to ban him] and ICE"? That Bluesky? You sure about that?

      We have to make our own spaces.
      We can't trust corpo social media to have our best interests in mind.

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      • agowa338@chaos.socialA agowa338@chaos.social

        @FediTips
        Not just "vulnerable groups"...

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        #28

        @agowa338 @FediTips in this environment *everyone* is vulnerable. But some are more vulnerable than others.

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        • moz@fosstodon.orgM moz@fosstodon.org

          @agowa338 @FediTips in this environment *everyone* is vulnerable. But some are more vulnerable than others.

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          #29

          @moz @FediTips

          sad but true...

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          • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

            Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

            What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

            What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

            This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

            "Just block them" doesn't work.

            dobetterinstitute@twit.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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            #30

            @FediTips If you'd moderate your local club meeting moderate your mastodon servers. Period.

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            • klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.netK klefstadmyr@social.vivaldi.net

              @tauon @FediTips To the server they live on?

              tauon@possum.cityT This user is from outside of this forum
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              #31

              @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services what if they just say 'nah' though

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              • djwfyi@vmst.ioD djwfyi@vmst.io

                @FediTips

                Yes.

                But also with the recognition that the system working this way is ripe for abuse and pile ons. It's easy for a bad actor to use the system to target someone they simply don't like or actively want to harm.

                So mods, admins, and even individuals need to use their own wits and sense and not take a demand at face value. "Doing your own research" is fraught with pitfalls if its own, so it's not that simple, either.

                There ARE accounts that simply shouldn't be hosted anywhere. There are also demands for a fediblock that are nothing but targeted abuse.

                We have to deal with both and be wise to both.

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                #32

                @djwfyi @FediTips It’s also the case that if someone writes something abusive and blocks you directly afterwards, you can’t reply to that, but no one reading it knows that you can’t reply.

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                • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                  Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                  What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                  What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                  This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                  "Just block them" doesn't work.

                  contrasocial@mastodon.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #33

                  @FediTips

                  "Just block them" has always been code for "I support this but don't want to say it explicitly."

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                  • tauon@possum.cityT tauon@possum.city

                    @klefstadmyr@vivaldi.net @FediTips@social.growyourown.services what if they just say 'nah' though

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                    #34

                    @tauon @klefstadmyr @FediTips

                    Then report that 'nah' to your admin.

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                    • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                      Imagine a stranger spreads lies about you. They tell people you're doing horrible depraved crimes. Would you just block them?

                      What happens when other people don't block them? When other people believe the lies and share them?

                      What if this turns into real life abuse and violence against you and your family?

                      This is what vulnerable groups face from bigots. Bigoted accounts need to be shut down, servers which refuse to remove bigots should be defederated.

                      "Just block them" doesn't work.

                      energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #35

                      @FediTips

                      @roknrol

                      With mods like this… kinda have to.

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                      • project1enigma@chaos.socialP project1enigma@chaos.social

                        @tauon @FediTips

                        Calling out antisemitism too "loudly" actually gave *me* a "strike" by the moderation of a previous instance I was. (And someone else got worse on the same instance, I preempted that by moving out quickly.)

                        Was quite a bit DARVO. "Harassment" my ass, but antisemitism itself was apparently no big deal.

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                        #36

                        @project1enigma @tauon @FediTips

                        This happened to me as well

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                        • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                          @e_t_wright

                          Recommendation is that server admins refuse to host bigots, and report bigotry when they see it on other servers.

                          If a server admin knowingly refuses to remove a bigot despite clear reports, admins might consider defederating that server.

                          There are also readymade blocklists that can help with pre-blocking the worst servers, more info for server admins at https://fedi.tips/importing-ready-made-server-blocklists-on-mastodon/

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                          #37

                          @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                          It doesnt help. I already know based on why I was struck that the mods are antisemites.

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                          • energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE energetic_nova@mastodon.social

                            @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                            It doesnt help. I already know based on why I was struck that the mods are antisemites.

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                            #38

                            @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                            This place is full of people who want me dead and I know it because they oppose democrats.

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                            • feditips@social.growyourown.servicesF feditips@social.growyourown.services

                              @e_t_wright

                              Recommendation is that server admins refuse to host bigots, and report bigotry when they see it on other servers.

                              If a server admin knowingly refuses to remove a bigot despite clear reports, admins might consider defederating that server.

                              There are also readymade blocklists that can help with pre-blocking the worst servers, more info for server admins at https://fedi.tips/importing-ready-made-server-blocklists-on-mastodon/

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                              #39

                              @FediTips @e_t_wright
                              What if it’s on Nostr, but I can’t defederate from Nostr.

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                              • miname@det.socialM miname@det.social

                                @FediTips yeah but if the people wouldn't simply believe the "liar" so easily, everything would be fine...

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                                #40

                                @Miname @FediTips Trusting people to distinguish fact from fiction is what put Trump in power

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                                • alex@pawb.funA alex@pawb.fun

                                  @haui @FediTips

                                  Bluesky as in 'the place that welcomes transphobes [Jesse Singal comes to mind, see: the 'waffles' controversy where the CEO refuses to ban him] and ICE"? That Bluesky? You sure about that?

                                  We have to make our own spaces.
                                  We can't trust corpo social media to have our best interests in mind.

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                                  #41

                                  @alex
                                  Bluesky as in the next oppressive and corrupt police state (because they apparently have centralized moderation).

                                  It wasnt a sincere suggestion but an explanation of why oppressing your fellow people does not work but the conditions need to change. As in bluesky is what happens when you try to solve an issue with more instead of less oppression.

                                  As I said, fanon wrote about this. Alexandra Kollontai did too in "the social basis of the woman question"
                                  @FediTips

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                                  • circuitsunfish@plesiosaur.netC circuitsunfish@plesiosaur.net

                                    @haui @FediTips Bluesky? The transphobes get a platform Bluesky?

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                                    #42

                                    @circuitsunfish
                                    It was not a sincere suggestion but a way to explain what meeting oppression with oppression leads to. If one wants to oppress others more to have less oppression themselves, they get corrupt policestate aka bluesky.

                                    That is why the answer is joining an org and changing the system. Join a socialist org near you today.
                                    @FediTips

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                                    • energetic_nova@mastodon.socialE energetic_nova@mastodon.social

                                      @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol

                                      This place is full of people who want me dead and I know it because they oppose democrats.

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                                      #43

                                      @Energetic_Nova @FediTips @e_t_wright @roknrol I am left, and have only ever voted for Democrats, but your statement is bigotry. Casting aside anyone who doesn’t agree with Democrats is the definition of bigotry to a T. @FediTips your heart is in the right place, but I fear your solution only leads to more problems and misuse for political warfare.

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                                      • imbl@social.treehouse.systemsI imbl@social.treehouse.systems

                                        @FediTips some of your suggested blocklists are made by transphobes who keep misgendering and harassing trans people though 😕

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                                        #44

                                        @imbl @FediTips This was one of the flaws I was mentioning @FediTips There is nothing from stopping those people from using the system you have envisioned against you and abusing it. Especially as you say these people are able to gather large followings and get them to believe lies. So nothing is stopping them from lying and using the controls you want.

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                                        • haui@mastodon.giftedmc.comH haui@mastodon.giftedmc.com

                                          @circuitsunfish
                                          It was not a sincere suggestion but a way to explain what meeting oppression with oppression leads to. If one wants to oppress others more to have less oppression themselves, they get corrupt policestate aka bluesky.

                                          That is why the answer is joining an org and changing the system. Join a socialist org near you today.
                                          @FediTips

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                                          #45

                                          @haui @FediTips ah gotcha! Makes sense now, thanks

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