If you're a white person on the Fediverse and you've never seen someone called a slur, or threats made against them--congratulations!
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@dave@alvarado.social
But Dave, couldn't Mastodon just not allow you to reply followers only to a public post?
Dave: "Sure it could, but the harassers would simply run a system on their instance that doesn't have that restriction. The Fediverse is more than just Mastodon. And Mastodon is open source so they could also still use Mastodon but remove that restriction." -
@JessTheUnstill @Crissa @dave I do it for call-ins. There are a lot of marginalized people in my circles, but we all make mistakes and every once in a while let slip an unexamined bias. So when one of my peers says something harmful, I'm likely to call them on it in a followers only post, because I don't want to leave it unaddressed but also really don't want to cause a dogpile. So it's a tool that's used both for preventing harassment and for harassment
I'm not sure how to resolve that@raphaelmorgan @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange @Crissa @dave so, just a dogpile from your followers, then?
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@fishidwardrobe @dave
Me too, i don't get it either, perhaps someone can explain?
Found quite a good article on allied problems and possible solutions
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@Crissa @dave I limit reply visibility to followers only or mentioned only a lot when it's something that I don't want to show up on random stranger's timelines. Sometimes it's to reduce the amount of replyguys. Sometimes it's sorta personal stuff (not to the level of "move to Signal" but still not the sort of thing everyone needs to read)
@JessTheUnstill @dave
But why should this limit who the thread source can show it to? Why should you have control over showing it to (from their perspective) randos, and not the person who's being replied to?Being able to hide it from *their* followers - what legitimate purpose does that serve?
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@fishidwardrobe @dave
Me too, i don't get it either, perhaps someone can explain?
Found quite a good article on allied problems and possible solutions
https://privacy.thenexus.today/social-threat-modeling-and-quote-boosts/ -
@dave it never occured to me that the "followers only" setting could be used that way. Wouldn't it make more sense if the replies automatically followed the same restrictions as the original message ? You've chosen to reply to a public message, you follow the rule set by the author of the message.
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This is unfortunately something that I have seen, certainly on Black Mastodon along with Trans Mastodon.
Often black Fediversians will be on the receiving end of racism and will rightly call out white Fediversians for not pushing back against it. Unfortunately we typically cannot do that as we simply cannot see the bigots and their bigotry, often because of either the way they are posting and/or the admins of the instances we are in defedding from problematic instances and blocking bigots.
It does seem to be less of an issue on trans and LGBTQ Fedi and Mastodon, probably due to so many of us being on instances explicitly run by and for LGBTQ folx.
Unfortunately, that is not an option for everyone, and I have wracked my brains as to how we can stop all racism and other bigotry.
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@dave That sounds like a defect of the "followers only" mechanism… Maybe we should modify its behavior to not reply to non-followers? That way, only mutuals can join in the harassment (instead of all followers of the original instigator), and an unfollow shuts things down, too.
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@dave ty
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@dave I honestly had not understood that before, thanks for explaining.
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@dave bonus points when the victim is blocked and not able to report report said harrassment…
- They can even prevent admins from seeing the posts in question
- This is a serious issue that #Mastodon #developers refuse to address, alongside the unwillingness to address basic features that every other internet-facing application has, like blocklist feed support…
- They can even prevent admins from seeing the posts in question
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@toothpaste_sandwich @dave I consider the maintainers closing a valid issue as unwillingness…
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@Rhube @MxAlba @dave I think you misread because the above has no impact on public posts without any reply restrictions. It would be part of the long requested reply control features one could use if you want to limit who can reply to you. And one very useful limitiation would be "you can't change the scope of who the post is visible to".
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@gunchleoc @dave That would be another useful control, control of who can @ you outside a reply context.
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@dave Is there a shit mastodon says account yet? Maybe people could anonymously shame the harassers by messaging screenshots and posting them that way.
@semitones @dave harrassers have no shame. They prefer anonymity because they hate repercussions in the real world.
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@toothpaste_sandwich @dave I consider the maintainers closing a valid issue as unwillingness…
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@dave @pierrenick This is something I really like about Bluesky, they let the OP “own” the conversation and remove harassers very easily.
I hope Mastodon can learn from this.
@thomasfuchs@hachyderm.io @pierrenick@hachyderm.io @dave@alvarado.social It's certainly a useful feature, but one with its own potential for abuse.
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@dave
>The most information they can share is "see look, this *happens*. It happened to *me*."
That's the value of receipts