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  3. The ratio of people "yes, but"ting me in replies whenever I share a wild proposal to those that silently think "hm, makes sense" without posting a reply but taking my idea to do something with it must be at least 1:10.

The ratio of people "yes, but"ting me in replies whenever I share a wild proposal to those that silently think "hm, makes sense" without posting a reply but taking my idea to do something with it must be at least 1:10.

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  • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

    The ratio of people "yes, but"ting me in replies whenever I share a wild proposal to those that silently think "hm, makes sense" without posting a reply but taking my idea to do something with it must be at least 1:10. That is my hope.

    1/3

    #AlwaysTheOptimist #SharingIsCaring

    jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
    jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
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    #3

    So. Share your wildest ideas. Not because you want to be praised for it. But because you might inspire other strangers with specific knowledge to build stuff inspired by your idea without even telling you. Ideas want to travel to find new friends. Set them free. They might come back to you or not. Just share. That's what the Real Internet is for 😉

    2/3

    djgummikuh@mastodon.socialD carla@hessen.socialC jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ nachtet@norden.socialN 4 Replies Last reply
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    • michelpatrice@jasette.facil.servicesM michelpatrice@jasette.facil.services

      @jwildeboer

      Hm, makes sense.

      (I hope that this gives you hope.)

      jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
      jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
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      #4

      @MichelPatrice Thank you 🙂

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      • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

        So. Share your wildest ideas. Not because you want to be praised for it. But because you might inspire other strangers with specific knowledge to build stuff inspired by your idea without even telling you. Ideas want to travel to find new friends. Set them free. They might come back to you or not. Just share. That's what the Real Internet is for 😉

        2/3

        djgummikuh@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
        djgummikuh@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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        #5

        @jwildeboer interesting aspect 🤔 never really thought of it from that point of view. Will attempt to do that more often 👍️

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        • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

          So. Share your wildest ideas. Not because you want to be praised for it. But because you might inspire other strangers with specific knowledge to build stuff inspired by your idea without even telling you. Ideas want to travel to find new friends. Set them free. They might come back to you or not. Just share. That's what the Real Internet is for 😉

          2/3

          carla@hessen.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
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          #6

          @jwildeboer your wise words give me hope

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          • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

            So. Share your wildest ideas. Not because you want to be praised for it. But because you might inspire other strangers with specific knowledge to build stuff inspired by your idea without even telling you. Ideas want to travel to find new friends. Set them free. They might come back to you or not. Just share. That's what the Real Internet is for 😉

            2/3

            jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
            jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
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            #7

            The Fediverse is more open to this. It is (still) a place for people to talk to people, not to algorithms and bots. But we do have our share of trolls and folks that love to be against everything. Ignore them. Block them. Mute them. It's your timeline. It's your decision what you want to see in it 🙂

            3/3

            elmiko@fosstodon.orgE jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ 2 Replies Last reply
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            • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

              So. Share your wildest ideas. Not because you want to be praised for it. But because you might inspire other strangers with specific knowledge to build stuff inspired by your idea without even telling you. Ideas want to travel to find new friends. Set them free. They might come back to you or not. Just share. That's what the Real Internet is for 😉

              2/3

              nachtet@norden.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
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              #8

              @jwildeboer I like it 🌞🌈

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              • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

                The Fediverse is more open to this. It is (still) a place for people to talk to people, not to algorithms and bots. But we do have our share of trolls and folks that love to be against everything. Ignore them. Block them. Mute them. It's your timeline. It's your decision what you want to see in it 🙂

                3/3

                elmiko@fosstodon.orgE This user is from outside of this forum
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                #9

                @jwildeboer i think about the paraphrasing of this all the time "your timeline, your decision", and i thank you for that. 😃

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                • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

                  The Fediverse is more open to this. It is (still) a place for people to talk to people, not to algorithms and bots. But we do have our share of trolls and folks that love to be against everything. Ignore them. Block them. Mute them. It's your timeline. It's your decision what you want to see in it 🙂

                  3/3

                  jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
                  jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #10

                  ADDENDUM: The urge to "yes, but" is strong in many of us. We think (I am no exception) we know better. That when we see someone else proposing something we've tried in the past and failed at, the first impulsive reaction is the "It won't work and here's why". It takes humbleness to switch that around to "I tried that once, let me help you to make it work this time." Rinse, repeat. Rinse, repeat. Take your ego out of the equation. Ideas are bigger than people. Trust me on that!

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                  • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

                    The ratio of people "yes, but"ting me in replies whenever I share a wild proposal to those that silently think "hm, makes sense" without posting a reply but taking my idea to do something with it must be at least 1:10. That is my hope.

                    1/3

                    #AlwaysTheOptimist #SharingIsCaring

                    biokistenversteher@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                    biokistenversteher@mastodon.social
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                    #11

                    @jwildeboer Yes, cool thoughts, but…

                    😉

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                    • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

                      The ratio of people "yes, but"ting me in replies whenever I share a wild proposal to those that silently think "hm, makes sense" without posting a reply but taking my idea to do something with it must be at least 1:10. That is my hope.

                      1/3

                      #AlwaysTheOptimist #SharingIsCaring

                      yasun@digitalcourage.socialY This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #12

                      @jwildeboer
                      And we who are silently acknowledging your posts talk quietly to others who are thinking calmly. Ripples and ripples of your thoughts.

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                      • jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net

                        ADDENDUM: The urge to "yes, but" is strong in many of us. We think (I am no exception) we know better. That when we see someone else proposing something we've tried in the past and failed at, the first impulsive reaction is the "It won't work and here's why". It takes humbleness to switch that around to "I tried that once, let me help you to make it work this time." Rinse, repeat. Rinse, repeat. Take your ego out of the equation. Ideas are bigger than people. Trust me on that!

                        ruedigergad@mastodon.onlineR This user is from outside of this forum
                        ruedigergad@mastodon.onlineR This user is from outside of this forum
                        ruedigergad@mastodon.online
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                        #13

                        @jwildeboer "I tried it and failed. Here are my experiences. Maybe they help you succeed." is such a nice twist! I love it! Thanks for sharing!

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                        • biokistenversteher@mastodon.socialB biokistenversteher@mastodon.social

                          @jwildeboer Yes, cool thoughts, but…

                          😉

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                          #14

                          @biokistenversteher Aaah finally that's the inevitable reply I've been scrolling for! 😄 Good, so I don't have to post it. Seems to be quite a German sense of humour...

                          @jwildeboer I also enjoy the cooperative mindset here very much. Some activists with an energy level several orders of magnitude higher than mine have really struggled with the silence that followed after the person was offended outside the Fediverse. But people here tend to turn their backs on fascist networks and to cool down offline. Both may look like ignorance, but those people still are allies of the good.
                          I made a habit of thanking for posts I read and valued by faving them even if I do not consider sharing. Just so folks know they are being seen and they are not alone.

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                          • blackbird@freiburg.socialB blackbird@freiburg.social

                            @biokistenversteher Aaah finally that's the inevitable reply I've been scrolling for! 😄 Good, so I don't have to post it. Seems to be quite a German sense of humour...

                            @jwildeboer I also enjoy the cooperative mindset here very much. Some activists with an energy level several orders of magnitude higher than mine have really struggled with the silence that followed after the person was offended outside the Fediverse. But people here tend to turn their backs on fascist networks and to cool down offline. Both may look like ignorance, but those people still are allies of the good.
                            I made a habit of thanking for posts I read and valued by faving them even if I do not consider sharing. Just so folks know they are being seen and they are not alone.

                            biokistenversteher@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #15

                            @Blackbird @jwildeboer Well said!

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