Kids put up with a LOT from adults
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@2something @Violinknitter As an adult, and a parent, I tried to read A Series of Unfortunate Events but I had to stop because I could not handle how much the adults in the series consistently and spectacularly let those kids down. Only one adult was different and well, spoilers.
@JessieImproved@hachyderm.io @Violinknitter@wandering.shop Part of the theme of the book is that you shouldn't idolize people, because everyone has faults, including the adults you want to think are perfect.
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
kids wind up wading through a lot of adult baggage because the adults haven't done that work themselves...
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter and the cherry on the cake is adults telling those kids, what an easy, wonderful time they have, no reponsibilities, no burden, called "childhood".
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Frankly, Alice in Wonderland also describes so much of my experiences from a career in IT and Business consulting.
The White Rabbit is your sponsor, impossible to get hold of. The Doorknob works in Access Management, Tweedledee and Dum run Security and Compliance. The hostility from the Flower Chorus when they learn I am not ”one of them” can be a little hurtful.
Now, the Caterpillar is important, he’s got some solid intel, you just need to approach him carefully and with respect.
Of course, every damn day is somebody’s un-birthday, so stay clear of the tea party - that’s one crazy thing you can’t ever control or improve. Just the cost of doing business, I guess.
The best days on the engagement is when you meet someone who understands you and is willing to help. Find your Chesire Cat early, and you have a chance at success.
It’s a brilliant book.
@airwhale@beige.party @Violinknitter@wandering.shop @janeishly@beige.party It's really just the common pattern of dealing with people who are above you in some way. The Adults especially, but a lot of the same arbitrary cruelty is just how people in power are, by either their own malice or the nature of their position.
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter also autistic
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@Violinknitter and the cherry on the cake is adults telling those kids, what an easy, wonderful time they have, no reponsibilities, no burden, called "childhood".
@energisch_ Childhood is *rough,* even a good one, because learning to be a person in the world isn’t easy!
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter Never thught about the books that way, being honest.but now i 1000% agree.
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter Perhaps also the Harry Potter stories, which like all great children's books are about having to deal with the arcane rules imposed by adults who themselves do not have it all together anywhere near what they'd like you to believe.
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@energisch_ Childhood is *rough,* even a good one, because learning to be a person in the world isn’t easy!
@Violinknitter It's also rough physically, just imagine all that growing one needs to get through, and constantly these changes in body and balance.... it's definitely not an easy time.
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@Violinknitter huh, I always thought it was the abstract mathematics that made it great.
@rbmath @Violinknitter ok, now I really need to read/watch it ... um, which one are we talking about, exactly?
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@rbmath @Violinknitter ok, now I really need to read/watch it ... um, which one are we talking about, exactly?
@brahms @rbmath If you’re interested in all the math & Victorian jokes, The Annotated Alice is wonderful
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-annotated-alice-lewis-carroll/1122986703
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@brahms @rbmath If you’re interested in all the math & Victorian jokes, The Annotated Alice is wonderful
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-annotated-alice-lewis-carroll/1122986703
@brahms You can also of course find the original Alice in Wonderland text available online for free at sites like Gutenberg & Librivox
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter Bingo!
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter @izzy In our 30's and it still feels like that
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter@wandering.shop I finally feel like I understand Alice in Wonderland better, and I relate!
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@rbmath @Violinknitter ok, now I really need to read/watch it ... um, which one are we talking about, exactly?
@brahms @Violinknitter I don't remember all of them, but here is a quick write up I found: https://maths-from-the-past.org/alice-and-algebra/
There's a lot more out there on it. If you're looking for the math content, I'd read the original or the book that violinknitter linked, Martin Gardner is amazing.
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter Fuck yes! I remember being dragged around by my parents as a kid.
I’m reminded of the tendency for literary analysis and criticism to look for hidden meanings and to judge stories that lack such tea-leaf messages as low quality “genre” fiction.
I mean “Hills Like White Elephants” is supposedly about abortion, but I found it utterly pointless, and I’ll never get back the time I wasted reading it.
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Kids put up with a LOT from adults
@Violinknitter This is a wonderful post -
@Violinknitter This is a wonderful post
@druid I didn’t expect this to get so many views, but roach-works Tumblr post really seems to be resonating with a lot of people over here on Mastodon!
