@alice yeah, both of those swing so far from that person seeing me as an equal.

@SRLevine Jeepers creepers, Angel, where’d you get those peepers? @alice

@alice I’m going to make a face and nope pretty hard with any term of endearment that feels unearned.

Like if I’m being called a goddess, that supplicant better be actively in the process of dutiful worship.

And if I’m getting angel’d and they’re not trembling in awe and not a small amount of fear, then they’re clearly being disingenuous.

Also, point of… whatever:

getting a “hey mami” hits with distinctly less maternal ick than mommy/momma. I mean, I still don’t wanna, but it’s WAY less icky.