White people, stop having a conniption and internalising the shit out of it in a massive woe-is-me meltdown whenever someone accuses you of holding some kind of bigoted bias.
Act in a way that demonstrates your integrities and allyships. If the accusation is wrong, your reputation will speak for itself. If it's right, accept it and do the work to demonstrate your growth.
The self-pity-party helps no-one. You can't get over your internal biases if you're too busy feeling sorry for yourself.