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  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

    @Jamoteusz

    What i dislike about that is that it shifts responsibility. We can't be responsible for educating bigots. Rising or falling depending upon how bigoted someone is should be enough lesson and personal motivation. It's not hard. It's not like culture and society isn't screaming the lesson constantly. So some will learn, some won't. If some won't: oh well

    Again, why do we have the job of doing someone else's fundamental social responsibility for them. It's a fool's errand.

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    #22

    @benroyce @Jamoteusz

    because it might not be bigotry, but simply a culture clash. if you are just ambushing the candidate with that kind of setup, you could just as easily say you are ruling out people raised in a strong patriarchic culture too. you _might_ be inclined to just say "good to rule that out" but that's its own discrimination against origin.

    ...now, if the interview guidance given to the candidate in advance says something like "we conduct interviews in panels and the candidate is expected to address their answer to the person posing the question" then what I said above doesn't apply.

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    • drangnon@hachyderm.ioD drangnon@hachyderm.io

      @benroyce @Jamoteusz

      because it might not be bigotry, but simply a culture clash. if you are just ambushing the candidate with that kind of setup, you could just as easily say you are ruling out people raised in a strong patriarchic culture too. you _might_ be inclined to just say "good to rule that out" but that's its own discrimination against origin.

      ...now, if the interview guidance given to the candidate in advance says something like "we conduct interviews in panels and the candidate is expected to address their answer to the person posing the question" then what I said above doesn't apply.

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      #23

      @draNgNon @Jamoteusz

      "you could just as easily say you are ruling out people raised in a strong patriarchic culture too"

      that's reframing the essential problem as if what you just described is something totally different

      misogyny is misogyny

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      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

        Nice method

        #techbros #techbro #misogyny

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        #24

        @benroyce oh dear. I had cringe flashbacks from when my landlord would only talk handywork stuff to me (a Smol Twink™) when my flatmate (Slightly taller woman) was very adamantly bearing said handywork tools in her hands and talking to him.

        It was. So very weird until we understood exactly what was going on.

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        • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

          @draNgNon @Jamoteusz

          "you could just as easily say you are ruling out people raised in a strong patriarchic culture too"

          that's reframing the essential problem as if what you just described is something totally different

          misogyny is misogyny

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          @benroyce @Jamoteusz

          there really is a difference between an asshole American techbro who was gung-ho about gamergate, and some guy from an ME or African or SE Asian country who managed to get the education necessary to work in a tech job in the US or EU and who has real problems addressing women directly. that difference is actually codified legally; you can decline to hire someone who's rude but not discriminate on the basis of national origin.

          it's late so that's all I will say in response, other than cute as the OP was, it's not always as cut-and-dried as you make it out to be. if only that were so

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          • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

            Nice method

            #techbros #techbro #misogyny

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            #26

            @benroyce

            It totally works for weeding out the bigots, too.

            (If the office festooned with pride flags wasn't going to be enough of a clue...)

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            • dwlt@mastodon.me.ukD dwlt@mastodon.me.uk

              @benroyce not just techbros, works across job functions in my experience

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              #27

              @dwlt @benroyce yeah this is kinda a standard technique? 🤷 -we used to have this as a criterion (in Finance) 15 years ago, if we had enough interviewers to do 2:1 (any gender mix)

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              • drangnon@hachyderm.ioD drangnon@hachyderm.io

                @benroyce @Jamoteusz

                there really is a difference between an asshole American techbro who was gung-ho about gamergate, and some guy from an ME or African or SE Asian country who managed to get the education necessary to work in a tech job in the US or EU and who has real problems addressing women directly. that difference is actually codified legally; you can decline to hire someone who's rude but not discriminate on the basis of national origin.

                it's late so that's all I will say in response, other than cute as the OP was, it's not always as cut-and-dried as you make it out to be. if only that were so

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                #28

                @draNgNon @Jamoteusz

                i think anyone from any culture can understand hierarchy in employment situations, and what you're saying seems rather patronizing to people from other cultures. you're saying they are unable to understand the power dynamic of an interview scenario

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                • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                  @draNgNon @Jamoteusz

                  i think anyone from any culture can understand hierarchy in employment situations, and what you're saying seems rather patronizing to people from other cultures. you're saying they are unable to understand the power dynamic of an interview scenario

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                  #29

                  @benroyce @draNgNon

                  we have to teach them before examination.

                  But you are right.

                  Thanx a lot for expirience exchange.

                  Cheers, mate!

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                  • jamoteusz@mastodon.com.plJ jamoteusz@mastodon.com.pl

                    @benroyce @draNgNon

                    we have to teach them before examination.

                    But you are right.

                    Thanx a lot for expirience exchange.

                    Cheers, mate!

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                    #30

                    @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                    your average person of average intelligence can understand social context and code switch easily

                    how we act around each other, gender related or not, is very different in church/mosque/temple, vs the home, vs the street, vs the coffee shop, vs employment scenario, etc

                    how a person acts in their home country vs adopted country is all code switching too

                    anyone can grasp context and expectations instantly

                    "we have to teach them" seems condescending to me

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                    • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                      @RichiH that is harder because they're just looking in the camera. But other cues like whose questions they engage with and how long and the overall differential in their emotional tenor can still be gauged

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                      #31

                      @benroyce yeah, it's doable. But needs more finesse.

                      The fun part is , #Grafana has something we call Wayfinders. If I say no on an interview, it's a hard no and the hiring manager can't override

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                      • drangnon@hachyderm.ioD drangnon@hachyderm.io

                        @benroyce @Jamoteusz

                        there really is a difference between an asshole American techbro who was gung-ho about gamergate, and some guy from an ME or African or SE Asian country who managed to get the education necessary to work in a tech job in the US or EU and who has real problems addressing women directly. that difference is actually codified legally; you can decline to hire someone who's rude but not discriminate on the basis of national origin.

                        it's late so that's all I will say in response, other than cute as the OP was, it's not always as cut-and-dried as you make it out to be. if only that were so

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                        #32

                        @draNgNon

                        @benroyce @Jamoteusz

                        This is about 'culture fit' isn't it.

                        Like, if that culture is yt cis dude sports huel bro-down last in the office wins, then that's the way it is and you have to fit in.

                        But if the culture is queer/trans positive syndicalist caring-responsibility and MH aware diversity forward then that's dangerous and discriminatory?

                        No. Tech interviews are nice, but what you really want to do is avoid dickheads who'll break a working team.

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                        • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                          @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                          your average person of average intelligence can understand social context and code switch easily

                          how we act around each other, gender related or not, is very different in church/mosque/temple, vs the home, vs the street, vs the coffee shop, vs employment scenario, etc

                          how a person acts in their home country vs adopted country is all code switching too

                          anyone can grasp context and expectations instantly

                          "we have to teach them" seems condescending to me

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                          #33

                          @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon can you explain why is that bigotry and misogyny?

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                            @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon can you explain why is that bigotry and misogyny?

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                            #34

                            @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                            what is

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                            • juliarez@chaos.socialJ juliarez@chaos.social

                              @draNgNon

                              @benroyce @Jamoteusz

                              This is about 'culture fit' isn't it.

                              Like, if that culture is yt cis dude sports huel bro-down last in the office wins, then that's the way it is and you have to fit in.

                              But if the culture is queer/trans positive syndicalist caring-responsibility and MH aware diversity forward then that's dangerous and discriminatory?

                              No. Tech interviews are nice, but what you really want to do is avoid dickheads who'll break a working team.

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                              #35

                              @JuliaRez @draNgNon @benroyce

                              thank you.
                              may be I start to understand something.

                              I'm small-biz - one man person band. Not much experience with BigFishes. [only some, rather bad]

                              So - i need to understand something.

                              [you use to much modern language to me - i'm not so up to date with it]

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                              • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                                what is

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                                #36

                                @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon that you calim to be in this thread

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                                  @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon that you calim to be in this thread

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                                  #37

                                  @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                                  i still don't understand you. speak specifically and coherently what you are trying to say

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                                  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                    @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                                    i still don't understand you. speak specifically and coherently what you are trying to say

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                                    #38

                                    @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon you posted a pic of a quote and in this thread you say that the people about the quote are bigots and misogynist

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                                      @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon you posted a pic of a quote and in this thread you say that the people about the quote are bigots and misogynist

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                                      #39

                                      @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                                      nothing i said is remotely like that. please learn to read

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                                      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                        @redeleted @Jamoteusz @draNgNon

                                        nothing i said is remotely like that. please learn to read

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                                        @benroyce @Jamoteusz @draNgNon hahaha, yes i go and learn to read. Obviously!

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                                        • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                          Nice method

                                          #techbros #techbro #misogyny

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                                          #41

                                          @benroyce Really? That's nuts, I got taught that in an interview you make an effort to address everyone there. It's an _interview_, they're all deciding to hire you or not.

                                          Maybe I should write a book on how to mask like a human. But then again, some techbro might read it, so perhaps not.

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