Fulfil my curiosity, please.

[robotistry@fediscience.org]

@agturcz Cis/het woman with an unusual first name. Fine with they/them if someone is unsure, prefer she/her if you know I'm a woman.

(Spent the middle part of my life throwing out junk mail addressed to "Mr." and three years showing up at hotels in Europe and periodically having to explain that I am madame not monsieur and can I please have my room key.)

[numerfolt@kirche.social]

@agturcz I find it hard to translate they/them to german, which is why I can't really answer this poll

[ninafelwitch@tech.lgbt]

@agturcz I voted "yes obviously enby" but it's a misconception that all enbies use they/them or that they/them is only for enbies.

[agturcz@circumstances.run]

@ninafelwitch The first part I will remember, thank you for spotting that. The second part is the reason of this poll

[garpu@mastodon.online]

@agturcz Binary, but I'd prefer binary pronouns. if someone calls me "they/them" because they don't know, I wouldn't be offended. (But would probably give correct ones.)

[goldfish@mastodon.green]

@agturcz I'm a cis woman, but have always used gender-neutral handles on-line for various reasons, so on-line, it's almost always they/them from people who don't know me. In queerer circles, I've occasionally been they/themmed by people who have seen a photo/ met me and have several context clues but haven't heard any preference expressed, and that's cool too.

[nuintari@mastodon.bsd.cafe]

@agturcz I am NB, but despise being called they/them. I find it dehumanizing. I'm NB, not neuter. He/him or she/her are both fine.

I respect other people's desire to be called they/them, but I cringe inside every time I have to do it.

[doomhammerng@mastodon.social]

@stfn @agturcz Them Stefans be like

[agturcz@circumstances.run]

This poll has just started, and I am learning so much from your feedback. Thank you all for your comments.

[ktosiek@mastodon.world]

@agturcz I'm a guy with long hair, I'm already used to answering to "Miss" >_>

[skolima@hachyderm.io]

@DoomHammerNG @stfn @agturcz for extra confusion, bonus points for talking about my partner without mentioning their gender as long as possible

[sparky57@mastodon.social]

@agturcz After seeing a meme a few months ago showing gift cards "his", "hers", and "onlune"; I laughed and adopted the pronoun to claim i have equal status with bots/dolls.

Make this Pride month also a safe month for bots/dolls/AI-generated/tui etc for coming out if the closet/.onion/deep-web/non-port80 whatever :tinking

[agturcz@circumstances.run]

@skolima @DoomHammerNG @stfn ... in Polish

[jwcph@helvede.net]

@agturcz Totally cishetwhite & totally OK with people using they/them about or at me.