To which of these affiliations do you have the most loyalty?
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@evan none
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@evan City, but Fedi Instance comes close second.
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When you're a beige
You're a beige all the way
From your first "not a cult"
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When you're a beige
You're a beige all the way
From your first "not a cult"
To your last dying day@RolloTreadway @evan IYKYK
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None of the above to include professional sports side.
I have never understood such loyalties, as they reek of mindless chauvinism. -
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@evan my loyalties lie most in my political affiliation and my university
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@evan my loyalties lie most in my political affiliation and my university
@evan I am a co founder of the local organization that I'm affiliated with, fun fact
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@evan Fedi by a wide margin, followed by city (only in as much as a city is a collection of people anchored to a place, and not with regard to the actual place or the local government), followed by university (even though I don't have one.)
I have no loyalty to any US political party, although I could conceivably find some loyalty to a syndicalist party if one had any chance of participating in US pol.
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@evan Being in the edge case of running on an instance that I myself run for only my wife and I, it happens to be that “My fediverse instance” is synonymous with “my household”.
So that’s an easy win.
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@evan ive learned hard over time to never affiliate or pay loyalty to anyone or anything i cannot immediately strike with my fists upon betrayal.
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A difficult choice because I hold them all extremely loosely.
Sure, I have some affinity toward my alma mater, but hardly loyalty.
Same with my city, it's a fine town, but my only loyalty is to the friends I have made here, not the city itself. Similarly with my fedi-instance, @stefano does a wonderful job making bsd.cafe a welcoming place, but it's precisely because it would be a non-issue to move to another instance that I remain comfortable here, largely because of the people. If either the tenor of the users/barista changed, there's no particular loyalty to the domain itself.
Political party is the weird one. I've never fit into the shapes of the big parties, so I chose my political party based on the least-unaligned with my values. But my loyalty is to those values, not the party itself, should they change values (glares at what I've witnessed the GOP doing…my Regan-voting ancestors wouldn't recognize the current disaster)
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@evan university, city, instance. Political party is NULL.
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@evan Since I self-host, loyalty to my instance would feel a little self-serving.
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@evan to humanity and civilisation and the general common good?
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University: Northwestern. Got a good education there, but no loyalty to them.
https://www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-news/trading-truth-transphobia-northwestern-universityPolitical party: None.
https://funcrunch.medium.com/my-gender-is-not-binary-and-neither-are-my-politics-e872c131f66e?sk=7b2e5f3f259405fb51f51b3c1950b39cFediverse instance: @medium. Concerned that they haven't been posting here,* and don't know how long this instance will last.
City: San Francisco, one of the few places in the US I feel *relatively* safe as a queer Black trans person.
* I helped manage this instance briefly as a contractor in 2025; almost no activity since then.
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@evan I'm allergic to non-human loyalty. Gives me hives. And my loyalty to people is earned and conditional on them not being a dick.
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University: Northwestern. Got a good education there, but no loyalty to them.
https://www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-news/trading-truth-transphobia-northwestern-universityPolitical party: None.
https://funcrunch.medium.com/my-gender-is-not-binary-and-neither-are-my-politics-e872c131f66e?sk=7b2e5f3f259405fb51f51b3c1950b39cFediverse instance: @medium. Concerned that they haven't been posting here,* and don't know how long this instance will last.
City: San Francisco, one of the few places in the US I feel *relatively* safe as a queer Black trans person.
* I helped manage this instance briefly as a contractor in 2025; almost no activity since then.
To clarify, I voted for city. Though I have no particular loyalty to the US, San Francisco has been my home for 23 years.

