Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
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@Primavera You remind me that I wanted to colour some fabric with tea today, thanks!
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@CiaraNi I'm on .social. When I joined Mastodon a few weeks ago I didn't know about anything about all the different servers and how to join them.
Now I know a tiny bit more, but I've yet to deside if I'm moving and where to move to.
You're right that before you've landed here and gotten oriented, it's an impossible ask to figure that out. Both similar and different enough to commercial social media - which makes it harder
(I've also been considering hopping instances to a server hosted in Europe, but so far that's also been an impossible ask, even with well written guides telling me exactly how to do it)
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@psneeze Yes it is! I can't believe there are people who walk this earth saying Skon Skon Skon.
Lol. I pronounce it "sc-oh-ne"
My OH pronounces it "skon"
There are neverending discussions in our house about it! XD
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@CiaraNi And maybe a nice biscuit or a scone.
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@grb090423 @CiaraNi @psneeze I always say skon because when it scone, it's gone.
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@lykkebrammer Fedi.tips is brilliant! I'm glad you like .Social. I love the fact that we can all meet and chat in here, regardless which server we're one.
"I thought it moved everything when you move' - I daren't say with 100% certainty as I've never investigated it myself. But I think you can take your people with you, everyone you follow and who follows you, but not your actual post history.
That's my understanding as well. The people I know who have moved servers generally keep their old accounts up if they want to maintain their media / post archive. The folks who set everything to self destruct (delete) don't have that problem
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Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
@CiaraNi
Every time someone says to get off of the big srrvers a techbro puts his hands on a window and laughs like the Sickos guy. -
Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
@CiaraNi it’s a start they can migrate later if they so choose. I personally think they’re better open signup free instances but that’s me. Most normies will go for the default.
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@CiaraNi I say skon. It's the correct way, a northern hill to die on.
@DavidBridger See, this is why you had to leave the EU. We can't be having people wander round the Union saying Skon.
(I'm pretending not to remember that friends in Cork say Skon too.)
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@grb090423 @CiaraNi @psneeze I always say skon because when it scone, it's gone.
That's the argument my OH uses... what's the fastest cake in the world: scone. (skon)
Half my family are from the midlands and upwards (UK) and it seems more folk there say "sc-oh-ne".
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Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
@CiaraNi (I'm having matcha
) I understand smaller instances need to prevent bots etc and minority communities especially need some screening before registration. But when I made my general purpose account, I didn't want to write a little essay about myself and be vetted on whether I can exist there. So the social it goes. especially when I don't even introduce myself to people in real life lol. I now just have multiple accounts on multiple instances for different stuff. -
Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
@CiaraNi hello you are right
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@CiaraNi
I have to agree.@falcennial @CiaraNi I'll get the water started
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@DavidBridger @CiaraNi there were few survivors of the scone/skon wars. #skonskonskon
@Wifiwits @DavidBridger This has happily reminded me of one of the happiest moments of my life, the moment when I learnt that the Scone of Stone in the Discworld is based on an actual real Stone of Scone in Scotland.
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Ditto:
'Why are you still on Bluesky too?'
'But did you *delete* your Twitter account?'
’You said you switched to Proton mail too, oh that’s bad, once someone at Proton said something’
It’s nice to see new neighbours move into the Fediverse. It feels unwelcoming to see people immediately interview them about the purity of their intentions. Or telling them You’re Doing It Wrong. They've just arrived on a journey away from Big Tech. Maybe they'd prefer to be offered a seat and a cup of tea.
@CiaraNi indeed this is not helpful. Especially if they do not ask for advice in that direction, like I cannot find people with my interest or from my region. And the answer should always be longer than hashtag, server.
On second thought maybe we should revive this Netiquette concept from the 1990s?
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That's the argument my OH uses... what's the fastest cake in the world: scone. (skon)
Half my family are from the midlands and upwards (UK) and it seems more folk there say "sc-oh-ne".
@grb090423 @CiaraNi @psneeze delightful.
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@CiaraNi Ah yes, when I finally joined Mastodon.Online after nuking my Twitter and much deliberation (and no knowledge of Fedi) chose it because it was a large instance (find lots of folks fast!), had a good policy/values statement, was run by the org, and seemed most likely to stick around and have dedicated resources for maintnenace and moderation.
Got my share of ugh, why that server did you know X thing about it, etc.
Why no, I didn't, I just fucking got here and know nothing of the inside
@Brett_E_Carlock @CiaraNi I had the same reply guys. I never had problems with that instance and the moderators work hard and well. And my posts and my work are the same, independent from where I send.
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Every time a newcomer posts an introduction and somebody tells them they shouldn’t have joined Mastodon.social and need to move to a different server, an angel loses their wings.
@CiaraNi *person takes a fairly substantial leap into the unknown by joining a niche community*
Person in community: "why didn't you go *more* niche?!"
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@Primavera @CiaraNi @rgarner lol!
Once upon a time I used to work in a very fancy German delicatessen. They served loose tea and included a pretty little timer on the tray.
My English/British friends laughed an explained that you could easily tell of the steep was long enough by the stain on the rim of the cup ...
Same with my Japanese friends: they have vending machines selling cans of hot black tea with milk and sugar ("Royal milk tea") at every corner.
Tea culture my a...
