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  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

    Nice method

    #techbros #techbro #misogyny

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    mike805@noc.social
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    #2

    @benroyce They also sometimes have a female and a male interviewer separately. If the candidate talks down to one and boasts to the other, he gets turfed.

    One place I worked, you got a couple of morning interviews, then you got taken out to lunch. The morning interviewers huddled and decided if you got afternoon interviews or a "thanks, we'll let you know" when you got back from lunch.

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    • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

      Nice method

      #techbros #techbro #misogyny

      k4_713@nonsense.directK This user is from outside of this forum
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      k4_713@nonsense.direct
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      #3

      @benroyce Can confirm.

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      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

        Nice method

        #techbros #techbro #misogyny

        holger@hellinger.wtfH This user is from outside of this forum
        holger@hellinger.wtfH This user is from outside of this forum
        holger@hellinger.wtf
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        #4

        @jwildeboer This 7-year-old quote as a screenshot seems to be an evergreen 🙂

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        • holger@hellinger.wtfH holger@hellinger.wtf

          @jwildeboer This 7-year-old quote as a screenshot seems to be an evergreen 🙂

          mcslibinas@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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          mcslibinas@mastodon.social
          wrote sidst redigeret af
          #5

          @holger @jwildeboer ok, it's old. What's it means in this cobtext? It never happened? Or nowadays it's lost his historical meaning?

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          • mcslibinas@mastodon.socialM mcslibinas@mastodon.social

            @holger @jwildeboer ok, it's old. What's it means in this cobtext? It never happened? Or nowadays it's lost his historical meaning?

            holger@hellinger.wtfH This user is from outside of this forum
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            #6

            @mcSlibinas

            Nothing that’s beyond your imagination. I just wanted to point it out to Jan because it’s always shared without tagging him. And he probably knows it anyway.

            @jwildeboer

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            • holger@hellinger.wtfH holger@hellinger.wtf

              @mcSlibinas

              Nothing that’s beyond your imagination. I just wanted to point it out to Jan because it’s always shared without tagging him. And he probably knows it anyway.

              @jwildeboer

              jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.netJ This user is from outside of this forum
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              jwildeboer@social.wildeboer.net
              wrote sidst redigeret af
              #7

              @holger @mcSlibinas I love it that it's still going around 🙂

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              • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                Nice method

                #techbros #techbro #misogyny

                jamoteusz@mastodon.com.plJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                jamoteusz@mastodon.com.pl
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                #8

                @benroyce do you think the candidate will learn from it? If they put the rules of the work place on the web - all can learn from it.
                But if it's not a clear rule - he may even don't understand what is happend.

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                • jamoteusz@mastodon.com.plJ jamoteusz@mastodon.com.pl

                  @benroyce do you think the candidate will learn from it? If they put the rules of the work place on the web - all can learn from it.
                  But if it's not a clear rule - he may even don't understand what is happend.

                  benroyce@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                  benroyce@mastodon.social
                  wrote sidst redigeret af
                  #9

                  @Jamoteusz

                  But... who gives a shit. If you're dealing with a bigot, fuck them. End of discussion

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                  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                    @Jamoteusz

                    But... who gives a shit. If you're dealing with a bigot, fuck them. End of discussion

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                    jamoteusz@mastodon.com.pl
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                    #10

                    @benroyce not so fast - there was a chance to teach him something new.

                    The way you propose builds a barriers.

                    Cheers Mate.

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                    • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                      Nice method

                      #techbros #techbro #misogyny

                      ludo@mastodon.scotL This user is from outside of this forum
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                      ludo@mastodon.scot
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                      #11

                      @benroyce not just tech bro! This happened to me a couple of months ago, and it was a young guy we were interviewing, and really right on/progressive, too, in terms of what he was saying. He directed everything we all asked at my male colleague, who is undeniably lovely but in hierarchical terms was the most junior member of our panel.

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                      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                        Nice method

                        #techbros #techbro #misogyny

                        dwlt@mastodon.me.ukD This user is from outside of this forum
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                        dwlt@mastodon.me.uk
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                        #12

                        @benroyce not just techbros, works across job functions in my experience

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                        • jamoteusz@mastodon.com.plJ jamoteusz@mastodon.com.pl

                          @benroyce not so fast - there was a chance to teach him something new.

                          The way you propose builds a barriers.

                          Cheers Mate.

                          benroyce@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                          benroyce@mastodon.social
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                          #13

                          @Jamoteusz

                          What i dislike about that is that it shifts responsibility. We can't be responsible for educating bigots. Rising or falling depending upon how bigoted someone is should be enough lesson and personal motivation. It's not hard. It's not like culture and society isn't screaming the lesson constantly. So some will learn, some won't. If some won't: oh well

                          Again, why do we have the job of doing someone else's fundamental social responsibility for them. It's a fool's errand.

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                          • ludo@mastodon.scotL ludo@mastodon.scot

                            @benroyce not just tech bro! This happened to me a couple of months ago, and it was a young guy we were interviewing, and really right on/progressive, too, in terms of what he was saying. He directed everything we all asked at my male colleague, who is undeniably lovely but in hierarchical terms was the most junior member of our panel.

                            benroyce@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                            benroyce@mastodon.social
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                            #14

                            @Ludo oof

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                            • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                              Nice method

                              #techbros #techbro #misogyny

                              mehdi_benadel@mastodon.balamb.frM This user is from outside of this forum
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                              mehdi_benadel@mastodon.balamb.fr
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                              #15

                              @benroyce I lived in a muslim community. Women in this community don't like men to be looking at them, which made me hesitant to maintain eye contact with women in general. I'm also bad with eye contact, which happens with people with ASD.

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                              • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                Nice method

                                #techbros #techbro #misogyny

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                                tracy_murray2000@mastodon.social
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                                #16

                                @benroyce I just had to follow you because of your post, I never worked in tech, but this is awesome!

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                                • mehdi_benadel@mastodon.balamb.frM mehdi_benadel@mastodon.balamb.fr

                                  @benroyce I lived in a muslim community. Women in this community don't like men to be looking at them, which made me hesitant to maintain eye contact with women in general. I'm also bad with eye contact, which happens with people with ASD.

                                  benroyce@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  benroyce@mastodon.social
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                                  #17

                                  @mehdi_benadel

                                  I think there's a difference between unwanted eye contact in purely social situations and eye contact in an employment scenario. I understand the cultural differences but I don't think they overrule the stricter hierarchy of a work environment. Someone should look at a boss, or interviewer, a certain way that has nothing to do with their gender or their culture. They should just see "boss" or "interviewer", woman or man doesn't matter

                                  This is strictly in the employment context

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                                  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                    @Ludo oof

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                                    ludo@mastodon.scot
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                                    #18

                                    @benroyce yeah, totally unconscious 🫣 sweet lad, too. He never asked for feedback, which is a pity because he can't address it if no one gets to tell him about it. Thing is many women don't even notice, it happens so frequently. Our lovely male colleague on the panel hadn't noticed...and he was off to the side so it was painfully obvious 😆

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                                    • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                      Nice method

                                      #techbros #techbro #misogyny

                                      richih@chaos.socialR This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #19

                                      @benroyce harder to do remote, but I have failed quite a few people for this.

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                                      • T tracy_murray2000@mastodon.social

                                        @benroyce I just had to follow you because of your post, I never worked in tech, but this is awesome!

                                        benroyce@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        benroyce@mastodon.social
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                                        #20

                                        @Tracy_Murray2000 followed back 😁

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                                        • richih@chaos.socialR richih@chaos.social

                                          @benroyce harder to do remote, but I have failed quite a few people for this.

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                                          #21

                                          @RichiH that is harder because they're just looking in the camera. But other cues like whose questions they engage with and how long and the overall differential in their emotional tenor can still be gauged

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