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  3. As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth.

As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth.

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  • imbl@social.treehouse.systemsI imbl@social.treehouse.systems

    @jonesmurphy @QasimRashid ignorance? friend i just asked a question, i was having trouble finding information. would an ignorant person ask for help learning things?

    my point still stands tho. men are the biggest driver of violence against women. yeah, some women enable that and of course fascism is bad no matter what gender the fascist is. and also men are overwhelmingly a danger to women

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    #13

    @imbl @QasimRashid you just asked a question to an immigrant born & raised in hunger and poverty in a 3rd world country thousands of miles from the USA. You asked me to be your secretary for info you should have memorized years ago. 40 million women ain't "some women". It's "the majority of white women and a whole lot of non-black women of color". Stop minimizing what racist women are doing as they destroy our democracy and protect pedophile rapists. Shame on you.

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    • steff@soc.femme.catS This user is from outside of this forum
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      #14

      @jonesmurphy@mastodon.social @YKantRachelRead@treehouse.systems @QasimRashid@mastodon.social

      Quite a few Jews voted for Adolf Hitler.

      WTF. This is a straight out Holocaust Denial talking point, and is completely false. While a tiny minority of Jews - such as those belonging to verband nationaldeutscher Juden (a group whose membership never exceeded a few thousand) - supported the NSDP early on - and was noncommittal 1932, it was clear that by 1933 with the enabling act even the staunchest Jewish assimilationists rejected the party and its goals.

      I have no idea why you feel the need to try to blame women for their own oppression or Jews for theirs, but it certainly says something.

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      • J johnrohde@helvede.net

        @QasimRashid Ok, I need to know what to with this information.
        I am a male and have never hurt a woman.
        Do you want me to self quarantine for the rest of my life in order to make women feel safe?

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        #15

        @johnrohde @QasimRashid

        people are wild.
        we are not asking you to hold yourself responsible for what other men do.

        you could talk to friends and family about it. you could support the women you know, so they know you are a man who. is aware of the problem. you could serve as a positive mentor to young men thru volunteer work, or by not being a toxic presence around women.

        you do not need to resort to histrionic threats of self-flagellation in order to try to help correct this problem.

        JFC.

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        • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

          As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

          Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

          https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

          rustoleumlove@mastodon.onlineR This user is from outside of this forum
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          #16

          @QasimRashid

          the number one cause of death for pregnant women in the US is homicide. it's been that way for years.

          truly, domestic violence is a massive problem that cuts across all sectors of US society

          https://hsph.harvard.edu/news/homicide-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-u-s/

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          • J johnrohde@helvede.net

            @QasimRashid Ok, I need to know what to with this information.
            I am a male and have never hurt a woman.
            Do you want me to self quarantine for the rest of my life in order to make women feel safe?

            chris@nutmeg.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
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            #17

            @johnrohde so in other words, you didn't read the whole article?

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            • psilonaut@idtech.spaceP This user is from outside of this forum
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              #18
              @jonesmurphy @QasimRashid What's your point? All women deserve it because 8% of them make poor choices?
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              • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

                weirding_is_real@mstdn.socialW This user is from outside of this forum
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                #19

                This was an excellent article.

                Wow, though, lots of these comments are worth skipping. 😶

                @QasimRashid

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                • ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systemsY ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systems

                  @jonesmurphy @QasimRashid

                  read what I wrote, Adolf.

                  uhhhh did you even bother looking at my profile before you just Nazijacketed a Jewish person or

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                  #20

                  @YKantRachelRead @jonesmurphy@mastodon.social @QasimRashid I suspect he said that because, not despite, checking your bio. I saw that and thought "fuck this guy, blocked"

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                  • imbl@social.treehouse.systemsI imbl@social.treehouse.systems

                    @YKantRachelRead wow i really didnt expect "the trans jewish woman is a nazi for feminism" quite that fast holy shit are men okay

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                    #21

                    @imbl @YKantRachelRead no, they're not.

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                    • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                      As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                      Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                      https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

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                      #22

                      @QasimRashid I'm glad you posted this and I'm also pissed that women have been saying this all along and no one listens to us
                      Most women learn the hard truth early on, that men can't be trusted not entirely. If you're not a man or perceived as a man, you're in danger. Even men in your family are not safe
                      Anyone reading this that replies with a variation of 'not all men' will be blocked with no reply. Instead of whining maybe go do something useful like tell your man buddies to stop harming women

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                        #23

                        @YKantRachelRead @QasimRashid yeah, it's completely off topic. Sorry you had to deal with that fool

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                        • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                          As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                          Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                          https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

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                          #24

                          @QasimRashid
                          Another example of Qasim's pathetic engagement farming. The capitalist system, which he will never address, is inherently sexist and the hierarchy requires someone to be picked on who's considered lower on the pecking order. Women and minorities have conveniently always been in this catagory.
                          The USSR-Communist Russia-which everyone on mastodon vilifies with ignorant Russophobia, always considered women as equals and important. That's why the US goal has been to destroy Russia.

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                          • timeless@mastodon.worldT timeless@mastodon.world

                            @QasimRashid
                            Another example of Qasim's pathetic engagement farming. The capitalist system, which he will never address, is inherently sexist and the hierarchy requires someone to be picked on who's considered lower on the pecking order. Women and minorities have conveniently always been in this catagory.
                            The USSR-Communist Russia-which everyone on mastodon vilifies with ignorant Russophobia, always considered women as equals and important. That's why the US goal has been to destroy Russia.

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                            #25

                            @Timeless @QasimRashid what

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                            • J johnrohde@helvede.net

                              @QasimRashid Ok, I need to know what to with this information.
                              I am a male and have never hurt a woman.
                              Do you want me to self quarantine for the rest of my life in order to make women feel safe?

                              australopithecus@mastodon.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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                              #26

                              @johnrohde @QasimRashid
                              Same things you do any time you learn about human horribleness:
                              • sit with it for a while, and take time to grieve both the victims and your own lost innocence as needed
                              • consult family and close friends about it, to see if/how you can improve your own behaviors
                              • remain aware of it, and keep it in mind when interacting with others
                              • leverage your own privileges to intervene if/when you see it happening in the real world

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                              • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                                As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                                Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                                https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

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                                #27

                                @QasimRashid Well Some Men Anyway

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                                • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                                  As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                                  Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                                  https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

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                                  #28

                                  @QasimRashid The picture is so dire.

                                  I don’t know what to do, except raising my sons to respect everyone equally, and raising my daughters to be comfortable with enforcing their limits.

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                                  • billjryan@mastodon.socialB billjryan@mastodon.social

                                    @QasimRashid Well Some Men Anyway

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                                    #29

                                    @billjryan @QasimRashid all men benefit from male supremacy, and one of male supremacy's main enforcement arms is violence against women. so, yes, all men.

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                                    • ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systemsY ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systems

                                      @Timeless @QasimRashid what

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                                      #30

                                      @YKantRachelRead@treehouse.systems Tankies go burrrr…

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                                      • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                                        As a human rights lawyer representing survivors of domestic and sexual violence for 15+ years, I've learned a hard truth. One that will make some men uncomfortable. This is good. Discomfort is the beginning of accountability.

                                        Women are not safe around men. This is a documented, data-driven, empirically supported fact our society has spent generations refusing to confront. Let's Address This.

                                        https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

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                                        #31

                                        @QasimRashid I'm with you. What do we need to do?

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                                        • ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systemsY ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systems

                                          @billjryan @QasimRashid all men benefit from male supremacy, and one of male supremacy's main enforcement arms is violence against women. so, yes, all men.

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                                          #32

                                          @YKantRachelRead @QasimRashid Sorry What you Suffered, But You Only Met The Wrong Men

                                          ykantrachelread@social.treehouse.systemsY truenorthspice@mastodon.worldT 2 Replies Last reply
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