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I had a friend who told me, "We [she and her husband] tease both our son and daughter about crying. So we're being equal, right?"
Re the effect on men, I think often about Brené Brown and how a man, after one of her talks on shame, told her, "You have to look into shaming of men, because my wife and daughters would rather see me dead than see me express vulnerabilty."