Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl What if we're talking about our own mistakes, because not only am I flawed, I'm an awful human being?
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@adhdeanasl What if we're talking about our own mistakes, because not only am I flawed, I'm an awful human being?
@roknrol The concept stands. We all deserve to give ourselves a break.
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@roknrol The concept stands. We all deserve to give ourselves a break.
@roknrol *extreme Pee Wee Herman voice* YES YOU DO, INFINITY
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl my motto was, "look for the solution."
I used to be in private contracting. My counterpart on the federal side was a peevish career fed who always seemed to want to find scapegoats to blame. She said this overtly one time when we had some sort of slip-up on a contract task and I said, "I'd like to focus on finding solutions here," and she actually said with her mouth-hole, "no, I want to find out who's to blame!"
I later ended up working with her as a fed when I joined government.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
I can't believe you'd say that publicly!
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl not your mistakes though m8 we all know they were _awful_
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@adhdeanasl not your mistakes though m8 we all know they were _awful_
@adhdeanasl sorry that was shit I meant: obviously. Fucking *obviously*. You're so obviously correct that a joke is the most sensible response. Mistakes are how we learn, not just how we fuck things up. But it's important to discuss mistakes to avoid the latter just as much as to achieve the former. But that's not as funny as calling you a tit.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl finally someone said this thank you.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl I can't. I need to sleep now.
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@adhdeanasl finally someone said this thank you.
@Ciela Best kept secrets of therapists everywhere, and I’ve just spilled the beans.
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Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
But my family has long taught that there are no mistakes, only lack of willpower to always do the right thing, so who's right? </sarcasm> -
Normalize discussing mistakes in a way that doesn’t sound like moral judgement.
@adhdeanasl I’m sorry. I can’t do that dean.
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