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  • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

    @naga hey Pat! Yay for autistic, poly, and geeky! Congrats on starting your transition!

    Mine started … a long time ago. Happy to chat AND be a 🧠 that’s prolly already tread some of the ground you’ll be traversing now/soon.

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    #41

    @masukomi Thank you, I appreciate it!

    It's my bedtime, but I put in a follow request 🙂

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    • jrdepriest@infosec.exchangeJ jrdepriest@infosec.exchange

      @masukomi It me.

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      #42

      @jrdepriest hey J R! 👋

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      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

        @myrialux yay! And a fellow rails geek too!

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        #43

        @masukomi yup! I know it doesn’t get the love anymore like Go or Rust now, but it does the job and pays the bills!

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        • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

          You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

          I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

          I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

          I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

          Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

          #transgender

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          #44

          @masukomi

          I am in my late 50's, but may look and act a bit younger due to HRT...

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            #45

            @StryderNotavi

            Thank you sweetie ... 💋

            @masukomi

            Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

            Hugz & xXx

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            • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

              @jrdepriest hey J R! 👋

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              #46

              @masukomi I'm 51, transitioned at 35, married to the same cisgender woman for 29 years, dress like a soft butch, work in information security, play PC games, have been writing as a hobby since 1981, am extremely AuDHD, lifelong depression sufferer, cPTSD from an abusive step-dad, and I take care of my disabled wife and cats as best I can. Also, lapsed pagan trying to regain my faith in a way that avoids its frequent gender essentialism. Trying to learn to ask better questions instead of focusing on answers.

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              • melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.onlineM melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.online

                @StryderNotavi

                Thank you sweetie ... 💋

                @masukomi

                Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

                Hugz & xXx

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                #47

                @StryderNotavi @masukomi

                I can tell you there are no other trans horologists on fediverse or in the world

                Hugz & xXx

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                • dianea@lgbtqia.spaceD dianea@lgbtqia.space

                  @masukomi

                  I am in my late 50's, but may look and act a bit younger due to HRT...

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                  #48

                  @dianea yay hi! And yeah we all look and act younger. Comes with being happy with who we are. 😀 although the HRT certainly helps with the skin. 😉

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                  • melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.onlineM melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.online

                    @StryderNotavi

                    Thank you sweetie ... 💋

                    @masukomi

                    Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

                    Hugz & xXx

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                    #49

                    @StryderNotavi

                    Hey 👋
                    @MelissaBearTrix 😀

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                    • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                      You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                      I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                      I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                      I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                      Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                      #transgender

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                      #50

                      @masukomi I’m 55! I know, never ask a woman her age, but i also wish i knew some people elder than me in both age and trans lived experience. Loneliness is the greatest threat to our mental health. 🫂

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                      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                        @dianea yay hi! And yeah we all look and act younger. Comes with being happy with who we are. 😀 although the HRT certainly helps with the skin. 😉

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                        #51

                        @masukomi

                        Before HRT: looked 20 years past my age ☠️
                        After HRT: now look an entire generation younger than my birth age 🦋

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                        • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                          You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                          I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                          I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                          I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                          Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                          #transgender

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                          #52

                          @masukomi Miau 🏳️‍⚧️! I keep waiting to use great lines like "when half a century old you are, sore you will be" as well as the new classic "last millennium..."

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                          • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                            You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                            I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                            I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                            I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                            Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                            #transgender

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                            #53

                            @masukomi I'm a trans... something, or we are rather because I speak for a plural system, and we're 51 on paper. My elder sibling is in my headspace though and they are 53.

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                            • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                              @StryderNotavi

                              Hey 👋
                              @MelissaBearTrix 😀

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                              @masukomi @StryderNotavi

                              Hi there .... Hugz

                              Hugz & xXx

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                              • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                @Damselfly i thought you were like 40 @WrenArcher !

                                (Also I’m in awe of how good your voice acting example thing was on TikTok)

                                I swear to the gods that women embracing their transness acts like an elixir of youth! So many of us, don’t look our age.

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                                @masukomi
                                Yeahhhhh, I kinda get told that quite a bit. Well, I've never been told 40 but younger than my current years. Kinda embarrasses me a little but thank you... really. I do appreciate the kind words.

                                A lot of it I'm sure is my hair. I've never made it a secret that I wear wigs. I just don't really announce it as much anymore. I think putting them on gives me a teeny little facelift of sorts. But yeah, a lot of my hair jumped ship when I was powered by testosterone so I have to wear wigs. I've been trying to figure out a way to put some gray in them so I look more my age but haven't quite figured that out yet.

                                But the other reason I look younger than my age... Clean livin', ma'am. Cleeeeeen livin'. Plus makeup skills, good lighting, my momma's genes and late-in-life estrogen. ☺️

                                Thanks for the compliment on the voice acting thing. I've been wanting to try another but haven't found one of those challenges I like and haven't really had the quiet in the house to do it again anyway.

                                I do have another example though.
                                Wanna hear the Trans Girl Parlor Trick? 🤭
                                I've done a little voice acting in a couple of my songs. The old cowboys at the beginning of this one is me.

                                https://abirdieonawire.bandcamp.com/track/the-jynx

                                @Damselfly

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                                • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                  You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                  I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                  I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                  I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                  Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                  #transgender

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                                  #56

                                  @masukomi @krayola

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                                  • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                    You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                    I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                    I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                    I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                    Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                    #transgender

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                                    #57

                                    @masukomi Perhaps @michaela ?

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                                    • geschichtenundmeer@hessen.socialG geschichtenundmeer@hessen.social

                                      @masukomi Perhaps @michaela ?

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                                      @geschichtenundmeer
                                      I'm almost 60, and my English is very very bad...
                                      @masukomi
                                      I have boosted your post.

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                                      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                        You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                        I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                        I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                        I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                        Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                        #transgender

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                                        @masukomi if that's ok with her, I think @pigworker fits the bill.

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                                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                          @bluewitchgwen I'm #NotAGirl, but yeah, I remember the 80s.

                                          @masukomi @taedryn

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                                          @alice @masukomi @taedryn Shit! Sorry, my brain erased the "girl" part of the question and just left "trans".

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