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  • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

    You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

    I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

    I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

    I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

    Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

    #transgender

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    #44

    @masukomi

    I am in my late 50's, but may look and act a bit younger due to HRT...

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      #45

      @StryderNotavi

      Thank you sweetie ... 💋

      @masukomi

      Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

      Hugz & xXx

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      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

        @jrdepriest hey J R! 👋

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        #46

        @masukomi I'm 51, transitioned at 35, married to the same cisgender woman for 29 years, dress like a soft butch, work in information security, play PC games, have been writing as a hobby since 1981, am extremely AuDHD, lifelong depression sufferer, cPTSD from an abusive step-dad, and I take care of my disabled wife and cats as best I can. Also, lapsed pagan trying to regain my faith in a way that avoids its frequent gender essentialism. Trying to learn to ask better questions instead of focusing on answers.

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        • melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.onlineM melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.online

          @StryderNotavi

          Thank you sweetie ... 💋

          @masukomi

          Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

          Hugz & xXx

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          #47

          @StryderNotavi @masukomi

          I can tell you there are no other trans horologists on fediverse or in the world

          Hugz & xXx

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          • dianea@lgbtqia.spaceD dianea@lgbtqia.space

            @masukomi

            I am in my late 50's, but may look and act a bit younger due to HRT...

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            #48

            @dianea yay hi! And yeah we all look and act younger. Comes with being happy with who we are. 😀 although the HRT certainly helps with the skin. 😉

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            • melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.onlineM melissabeartrix@gives.hugz.online

              @StryderNotavi

              Thank you sweetie ... 💋

              @masukomi

              Hello ... 54 here ... I act like a teenager

              Hugz & xXx

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              #49

              @StryderNotavi

              Hey 👋
              @MelissaBearTrix 😀

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              • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                #transgender

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                #50

                @masukomi I’m 55! I know, never ask a woman her age, but i also wish i knew some people elder than me in both age and trans lived experience. Loneliness is the greatest threat to our mental health. 🫂

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                • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                  @dianea yay hi! And yeah we all look and act younger. Comes with being happy with who we are. 😀 although the HRT certainly helps with the skin. 😉

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                  #51

                  @masukomi

                  Before HRT: looked 20 years past my age ☠️
                  After HRT: now look an entire generation younger than my birth age 🦋

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                  • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                    You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                    I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                    I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                    I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                    Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                    #transgender

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                    #52

                    @masukomi Miau 🏳️‍⚧️! I keep waiting to use great lines like "when half a century old you are, sore you will be" as well as the new classic "last millennium..."

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                    • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                      You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                      I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                      I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                      I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                      Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                      #transgender

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                      #53

                      @masukomi I'm a trans... something, or we are rather because I speak for a plural system, and we're 51 on paper. My elder sibling is in my headspace though and they are 53.

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                      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                        @StryderNotavi

                        Hey 👋
                        @MelissaBearTrix 😀

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                        #54

                        @masukomi @StryderNotavi

                        Hi there .... Hugz

                        Hugz & xXx

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                        • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                          @Damselfly i thought you were like 40 @WrenArcher !

                          (Also I’m in awe of how good your voice acting example thing was on TikTok)

                          I swear to the gods that women embracing their transness acts like an elixir of youth! So many of us, don’t look our age.

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                          #55

                          @masukomi
                          Yeahhhhh, I kinda get told that quite a bit. Well, I've never been told 40 but younger than my current years. Kinda embarrasses me a little but thank you... really. I do appreciate the kind words.

                          A lot of it I'm sure is my hair. I've never made it a secret that I wear wigs. I just don't really announce it as much anymore. I think putting them on gives me a teeny little facelift of sorts. But yeah, a lot of my hair jumped ship when I was powered by testosterone so I have to wear wigs. I've been trying to figure out a way to put some gray in them so I look more my age but haven't quite figured that out yet.

                          But the other reason I look younger than my age... Clean livin', ma'am. Cleeeeeen livin'. Plus makeup skills, good lighting, my momma's genes and late-in-life estrogen. ☺️

                          Thanks for the compliment on the voice acting thing. I've been wanting to try another but haven't found one of those challenges I like and haven't really had the quiet in the house to do it again anyway.

                          I do have another example though.
                          Wanna hear the Trans Girl Parlor Trick? 🤭
                          I've done a little voice acting in a couple of my songs. The old cowboys at the beginning of this one is me.

                          https://abirdieonawire.bandcamp.com/track/the-jynx

                          @Damselfly

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                          • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                            You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                            I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                            I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                            I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                            Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                            #transgender

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                            #56

                            @masukomi @krayola

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                            • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                              You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                              I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                              I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                              I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                              Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                              #transgender

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                              #57

                              @masukomi Perhaps @michaela ?

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                              • geschichtenundmeer@hessen.socialG geschichtenundmeer@hessen.social

                                @masukomi Perhaps @michaela ?

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                                #58

                                @geschichtenundmeer
                                I'm almost 60, and my English is very very bad...
                                @masukomi
                                I have boosted your post.

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                                • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                  You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                  I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                  I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                  I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                  Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                  #transgender

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                                  #59

                                  @masukomi if that's ok with her, I think @pigworker fits the bill.

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                                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                    @bluewitchgwen I'm #NotAGirl, but yeah, I remember the 80s.

                                    @masukomi @taedryn

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                                    #60

                                    @alice @masukomi @taedryn Shit! Sorry, my brain erased the "girl" part of the question and just left "trans".

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                                    • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                      You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                      I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                      I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                      I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                      Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                      #transgender

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                                      #61

                                      @masukomi I’ve been told most trans people don’t last very long because of how horrible the world is to them. I’m much younger than 50 and I can’t see myself getting that far

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                                      • masukomi@connectified.comM masukomi@connectified.com

                                        You know what would be cool? Being friends with a trans woman my own age.

                                        I think there are only 2 trans women I'm actually close with, and one of them's >10yrs older than me and the other's > 10 years younger than me.

                                        I'm not sure I've even *seen* any trans women my age (early 50s) here on fedi. I hope there are some. 🤞

                                        I just feel kind-of isolated. You know?

                                        Anyway. If there are any 50ish yr old trans women out there looking for a friend… 👋

                                        #transgender

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                                        #62

                                        @masukomi I'm turning 52 in a few days. I'll be your friend, fwiw

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                                        • temptoetiam@eldritch.cafeT temptoetiam@eldritch.cafe

                                          @masukomi if that's ok with her, I think @pigworker fits the bill.

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                                          #63

                                          Thanks, @temptoetiam !

                                          Hi @masukomi ! You are not alone!

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