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  • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

    I feel I have to block negative people. Who come into my mentions with "I agree with you but you are f***ing stupid if you think Trump will face justice."

    As James Baldwin reminds us, "I never have been in despair about the world. I’ve been enraged by it. I don’t think I’m in despair. I can’t afford despair. I can’t tell my nephew, my niece. You can’t tell the children there’s no hope."

    Do not despair my friends. Be angry. Stay angry. But be not hopeless. We will get through this. We will.

    faliate@mastodon.socialF This user is from outside of this forum
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    #9

    @QasimRashid all we have is hope that a miracle happens and they all face justice.

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    • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

      @QasimRashid

      cynicism has no place on the left

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      #10

      @benroyce @QasimRashid

      It's coming though. Saw a few purity posts today criticizing what they have labeled Blue MAGA and advocating not voting for any Democrats that aren't sufficiently leftist because "They're all the same."

      Swear this nonsense is just a rerun of 2024, and plenty of folks are on board.

      It's the primaries, so yeah, elect better Dems, but this 'I'm not going to vote stuff' is ridiculous and dangerous.

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      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

        @Netraven @QasimRashid

        cynicism is cognitively easy

        hope takes cognitive effort

        cynics are just lazy, and resent people telling them to work harder mentally

        they would rather accept abuse (which is all cynicism is: rationalizing one's own oppression) than do the little extra work required to have a heart

        and so to someone invested in this approach, anyone with hope is hated more than the oppressor

        hope makes them aware of their cognitive sunk cost in their own subjugation

        hope is a threat

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        #11

        @benroyce @QasimRashid
        Hopefully they eventually get tired of being wrong. The cost shows up when we let uncertainty rise while resisting the urge to instantly snap to moral judgment. Moralizing is cheap, and that is the trap. Moral language turns debate into a self-reinforcing loop that shows people only what they want to see. It swaps symbolic wins for the harder work of revising beliefs, even when people know they are wrong.

        Recovering from the loop is expensive. It often means breaking rules you thought were absolute, at least for a while. From the inside, where things already feel out of control but manageable, that can look wasteful or even insane.

        Until roles and institutions are rebuilt, symbolic conflict is the cheapest way to stabilize. That is why it stays the default.

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        • mastodonmigration@mastodon.onlineM mastodonmigration@mastodon.online

          @benroyce @QasimRashid

          It's coming though. Saw a few purity posts today criticizing what they have labeled Blue MAGA and advocating not voting for any Democrats that aren't sufficiently leftist because "They're all the same."

          Swear this nonsense is just a rerun of 2024, and plenty of folks are on board.

          It's the primaries, so yeah, elect better Dems, but this 'I'm not going to vote stuff' is ridiculous and dangerous.

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          #12

          @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

          not voting, and thus helping fascists win, in the name of scolding someone for not being ideologically pure

          this isn't the left doing this, this is someone with ego masturbation needs. they may call themselves left, but they are not. they have self-serving psychological goals, not community-serving ideological goals

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          • netraven@hear-me.socialN netraven@hear-me.social

            @benroyce @QasimRashid
            Hopefully they eventually get tired of being wrong. The cost shows up when we let uncertainty rise while resisting the urge to instantly snap to moral judgment. Moralizing is cheap, and that is the trap. Moral language turns debate into a self-reinforcing loop that shows people only what they want to see. It swaps symbolic wins for the harder work of revising beliefs, even when people know they are wrong.

            Recovering from the loop is expensive. It often means breaking rules you thought were absolute, at least for a while. From the inside, where things already feel out of control but manageable, that can look wasteful or even insane.

            Until roles and institutions are rebuilt, symbolic conflict is the cheapest way to stabilize. That is why it stays the default.

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            #13

            @Netraven @QasimRashid

            it would be ironic of me to argue against your hopeful words

            😆

            all i will say is: never underestimate the commitment of the stubborn fool to resisting admitting they are wrong

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            • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

              I feel I have to block negative people. Who come into my mentions with "I agree with you but you are f***ing stupid if you think Trump will face justice."

              As James Baldwin reminds us, "I never have been in despair about the world. I’ve been enraged by it. I don’t think I’m in despair. I can’t afford despair. I can’t tell my nephew, my niece. You can’t tell the children there’s no hope."

              Do not despair my friends. Be angry. Stay angry. But be not hopeless. We will get through this. We will.

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              #14

              @QasimRashid 被”泼冷水“后,何必屏蔽呢?看看他们如何想,如何变,也是世事观察的一条途径吧。
              Why block out the cynical comments? Observing how they think and how they change is also a way to observe the world.

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              • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                not voting, and thus helping fascists win, in the name of scolding someone for not being ideologically pure

                this isn't the left doing this, this is someone with ego masturbation needs. they may call themselves left, but they are not. they have self-serving psychological goals, not community-serving ideological goals

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                #15

                @benroyce @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid Or fake accounts trying to sway the elections.

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                • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                  @Netraven @QasimRashid

                  it would be ironic of me to argue against your hopeful words

                  😆

                  all i will say is: never underestimate the commitment of the stubborn fool to resisting admitting they are wrong

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                  #16

                  @benroyce @QasimRashid No argument there, I've been foolish all my life. Only way I can speak of this at all.

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                  • hosford42@techhub.socialH hosford42@techhub.social

                    @benroyce @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid Or fake accounts trying to sway the elections.

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                    #17

                    @hosford42 @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                    yeah

                    1. ai chatbot

                    2. MAGA/ geopolitical trollfarm cosplaying left for toxic idealism psyop

                    3. entitled ego masturbation losers

                    who knows what these "don't vote" dingbats are?

                    i've stopped trying to figure it out

                    they just need to be opposed, period

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                    • netraven@hear-me.socialN netraven@hear-me.social

                      @benroyce @QasimRashid No argument there, I've been foolish all my life. Only way I can speak of this at all.

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                      #18

                      @Netraven @QasimRashid

                      that's self-awareness

                      that's the sunshine so many are lacking

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                      • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                        @Netraven @QasimRashid

                        that's self-awareness

                        that's the sunshine so many are lacking

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                        #19

                        @benroyce @QasimRashid

                        a final signoff:

                        If you want to get through hell, you have to go straight through it and come out the other side. Don’t turn back... But don’t settle in, either. Because if you finally escape and all you’ve done is become perfectly adapted to hell; You haven’t made it out at all. You’ve just carried it with you into the next room.

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                        • hosford42@techhub.socialH hosford42@techhub.social

                          @benroyce @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid Or fake accounts trying to sway the elections.

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                          #20

                          @hosford42 @benroyce @QasimRashid

                          Some may be Russian trolls, and we certainly can expect these to be active because it has worked so well in the past, but certainly not all. Somehow these folks equate 'not voting' with strength and fighting hard for their principles. That their action (or inaction) actually hurts, and maybe kills, the people they profess to be fighting for is less important to them than this demonstration of 'character.'

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                          • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                            @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                            not voting, and thus helping fascists win, in the name of scolding someone for not being ideologically pure

                            this isn't the left doing this, this is someone with ego masturbation needs. they may call themselves left, but they are not. they have self-serving psychological goals, not community-serving ideological goals

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                            #21

                            @benroyce @QasimRashid

                            Yes, outsized ego is certainly consistent with the syndrome.

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                            • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                              I feel I have to block negative people. Who come into my mentions with "I agree with you but you are f***ing stupid if you think Trump will face justice."

                              As James Baldwin reminds us, "I never have been in despair about the world. I’ve been enraged by it. I don’t think I’m in despair. I can’t afford despair. I can’t tell my nephew, my niece. You can’t tell the children there’s no hope."

                              Do not despair my friends. Be angry. Stay angry. But be not hopeless. We will get through this. We will.

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                              #22

                              @QasimRashid this

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                              • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                not voting, and thus helping fascists win, in the name of scolding someone for not being ideologically pure

                                this isn't the left doing this, this is someone with ego masturbation needs. they may call themselves left, but they are not. they have self-serving psychological goals, not community-serving ideological goals

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                                #23

                                @benroyce @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                I'm sort of inclined to another extreme, that is, vote and do more than vote. Move the party to become the vehicle for people that it should be.

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                                • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                                  @hosford42 @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                  yeah

                                  1. ai chatbot

                                  2. MAGA/ geopolitical trollfarm cosplaying left for toxic idealism psyop

                                  3. entitled ego masturbation losers

                                  who knows what these "don't vote" dingbats are?

                                  i've stopped trying to figure it out

                                  they just need to be opposed, period

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                                  #24

                                  @benroyce @hosford42 @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                  Emm i dont vote

                                  Enger is a display of despair

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                                  • qasimrashid@mastodon.socialQ qasimrashid@mastodon.social

                                    I feel I have to block negative people. Who come into my mentions with "I agree with you but you are f***ing stupid if you think Trump will face justice."

                                    As James Baldwin reminds us, "I never have been in despair about the world. I’ve been enraged by it. I don’t think I’m in despair. I can’t afford despair. I can’t tell my nephew, my niece. You can’t tell the children there’s no hope."

                                    Do not despair my friends. Be angry. Stay angry. But be not hopeless. We will get through this. We will.

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                                    #25

                                    @QasimRashid 🥰
                                    indeed
                                    there will be justice
                                    🖖

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                                    • sruba@kolektiva.socialS sruba@kolektiva.social

                                      @benroyce @hosford42 @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                      Emm i dont vote

                                      Enger is a display of despair

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                                      #26

                                      @sruba @hosford42 @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                      are you unable to vote? are there legal reasons or perhaps you have a physical, social, or economic reason why you cannot vote?

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                                      • unruly@mastodon.socialU unruly@mastodon.social

                                        @benroyce @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                        I'm sort of inclined to another extreme, that is, vote and do more than vote. Move the party to become the vehicle for people that it should be.

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                                        #27

                                        @unruly @mastodonmigration @QasimRashid

                                        oh yeah absolutely

                                        nothing about my championing of voting means i'm saying only vote

                                        you do it all

                                        meanwhile, anyone saying do all the good things except don't vote on the other hand, is a moron

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                                        • mastodonmigration@mastodon.onlineM mastodonmigration@mastodon.online

                                          @benroyce @QasimRashid

                                          Yes, outsized ego is certainly consistent with the syndrome.

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                                          #28

                                          @mastodonmigration @benroyce @QasimRashid

                                          I always think of the Sanders to Trump voters when the purists come out. They always have a reason, I’m just not sure it’s always the one they give.

                                          https://www.newsweek.com/bernie-sanders-trump-2016-election-654320

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