To which of these affiliations do you have the most loyalty?
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@evan
When you're a beige
You're a beige all the way
From your first "not a cult"
To your last dying day@RolloTreadway @evan IYKYK
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@evan
None of the above to include professional sports side.
I have never understood such loyalties, as they reek of mindless chauvinism. -
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@evan my loyalties lie most in my political affiliation and my university
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@evan my loyalties lie most in my political affiliation and my university
@evan I am a co founder of the local organization that I'm affiliated with, fun fact
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@evan Fedi by a wide margin, followed by city (only in as much as a city is a collection of people anchored to a place, and not with regard to the actual place or the local government), followed by university (even though I don't have one.)
I have no loyalty to any US political party, although I could conceivably find some loyalty to a syndicalist party if one had any chance of participating in US pol.
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1. Life
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@evan Being in the edge case of running on an instance that I myself run for only my wife and I, it happens to be that “My fediverse instance” is synonymous with “my household”.
So that’s an easy win.
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@evan ive learned hard over time to never affiliate or pay loyalty to anyone or anything i cannot immediately strike with my fists upon betrayal.
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A difficult choice because I hold them all extremely loosely.
Sure, I have some affinity toward my alma mater, but hardly loyalty.
Same with my city, it's a fine town, but my only loyalty is to the friends I have made here, not the city itself. Similarly with my fedi-instance, @stefano does a wonderful job making bsd.cafe a welcoming place, but it's precisely because it would be a non-issue to move to another instance that I remain comfortable here, largely because of the people. If either the tenor of the users/barista changed, there's no particular loyalty to the domain itself.
Political party is the weird one. I've never fit into the shapes of the big parties, so I chose my political party based on the least-unaligned with my values. But my loyalty is to those values, not the party itself, should they change values (glares at what I've witnessed the GOP doing…my Regan-voting ancestors wouldn't recognize the current disaster)
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@evan university, city, instance. Political party is NULL.
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@evan Since I self-host, loyalty to my instance would feel a little self-serving.
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@evan to humanity and civilisation and the general common good?
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University: Northwestern. Got a good education there, but no loyalty to them.
https://www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-news/trading-truth-transphobia-northwestern-universityPolitical party: None.
https://funcrunch.medium.com/my-gender-is-not-binary-and-neither-are-my-politics-e872c131f66e?sk=7b2e5f3f259405fb51f51b3c1950b39cFediverse instance: @medium. Concerned that they haven't been posting here,* and don't know how long this instance will last.
City: San Francisco, one of the few places in the US I feel *relatively* safe as a queer Black trans person.
* I helped manage this instance briefly as a contractor in 2025; almost no activity since then.
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@evan I'm allergic to non-human loyalty. Gives me hives. And my loyalty to people is earned and conditional on them not being a dick.
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University: Northwestern. Got a good education there, but no loyalty to them.
https://www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-news/trading-truth-transphobia-northwestern-universityPolitical party: None.
https://funcrunch.medium.com/my-gender-is-not-binary-and-neither-are-my-politics-e872c131f66e?sk=7b2e5f3f259405fb51f51b3c1950b39cFediverse instance: @medium. Concerned that they haven't been posting here,* and don't know how long this instance will last.
City: San Francisco, one of the few places in the US I feel *relatively* safe as a queer Black trans person.
* I helped manage this instance briefly as a contractor in 2025; almost no activity since then.
To clarify, I voted for city. Though I have no particular loyalty to the US, San Francisco has been my home for 23 years.
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1. Life
2. Humanity@Quasit there's a million other things you could have loyalty to. This poll is about which of these four you have the most loyalty to.
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@evan to humanity and civilisation and the general common good?
@bakachu there's a million other things you could have loyalty to. This poll is about which of these four you have the most loyalty to.
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@evan Being in the edge case of running on an instance that I myself run for only my wife and I, it happens to be that “My fediverse instance” is synonymous with “my household”.
So that’s an easy win.
@philip a lucky break!
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@evan
Pretty partial to kind.social. I feel more at home there than I’ve ever felt in the town I’m in, especially recently, since others here keep electing people who think two of my kids don’t exist.I’m party-free and have been for a long time. We recently visited our Uni and the state and the entire downtown in the formerly relatively left-leaning city seems to have been taken over by Trump-humpers, so I couldn’t care less about that any longer.
