```Datestodon — Fedi dating posts
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Datestodon — Fedi dating postsUsage:
#Datestodon #[AGE][ME]4[YOU] #LOCATION DESCRIPTIONAge:
Y 18–30s (younger)
A 30s–50s (adult)
O 50s+ (older)Gender:
F Femme
N Nonbinary/agender
M MascLooking for:
F Femme
N Nonbinary/agender
M Masc
A AnyExamples:
#Datestodon #AN4A #Seattle
Poly enby tomboy open to dates with FWB possibilities.#Datestodon #YF4M #Portland
20s femme rock-climber seeking fun guy.#Datestodon #OM4M #London
Gay 63yo - London area. Looking for partner.Notes:
- Codes are shorthand, not compatibility filters.
- Orientation and "YOU" age are intentionally not encoded.
- Use the description for sexuality, relationship style, preferences, boundaries, and anything else that matters.
- Multiple "YOU" categories may be combined when useful.
- Keep it human: read the post, respect boundaries, and don't treat codes as permission to contact someone.
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@alice
Can we think of some different way to represent age? I'm not sure how many people will be willing to call themselves "Old". I presume that's what "O" stands for.Perhaps Rare, Medium, and Well done?
@Quasit I went back and forth on a bunch of options, and the relative set "younger, adult, older" seemed the set with the fewest issues, but I'm still not very happy with it.
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@Quasit I went back and forth on a bunch of options, and the relative set "younger, adult, older" seemed the set with the fewest issues, but I'm still not very happy with it.
I was working on possibilities, but maybe it would be better to keep things simple.
One thing I've been wondering is if it's possible to search based on more than one hashtag at a time. For example, could you search for partners of the appropriate criteria in the location of my choice?
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@Quasit I'm open to arguments either way, but I figured that dating is just a part of local life, so it could be included in the general location hashtag. That also makes it more discoverable when just looking at local posts.
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I was working on possibilities, but maybe it would be better to keep things simple.
One thing I've been wondering is if it's possible to search based on more than one hashtag at a time. For example, could you search for partners of the appropriate criteria in the location of my choice?
@Quasit well, the location tag doesn't have to be *your* location (for instance if you're moving somewhere or visit regularly). I think it's fine to include a couple locations if you split time too.
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