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Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do".

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  • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

    Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

    sfringer@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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    #33

    @sjpurrs I got made fun of for crying when I was young (decades ago) I've carried that stigma my whole life. I do, finally, have moments where I can let out escape. Thank you for sharing your experience and stance.

    sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS truenorthspice@mastodon.worldT 2 Replies Last reply
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    • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

      @bamfingle I will! Sounds like a great show.

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      #34

      @sjpurrs Sorry, It's the Great Pottery Throw Down. My apologies!

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      • sfringer@mastodon.socialS sfringer@mastodon.social

        @sjpurrs I got made fun of for crying when I was young (decades ago) I've carried that stigma my whole life. I do, finally, have moments where I can let out escape. Thank you for sharing your experience and stance.

        sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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        #35

        @sfringer Thank you for sharing yours. I got made fun of a lot as a kid for doing the same. I learned much later on that it's not shameful at all. It's normal.

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        • ailbhe@mendeddrum.orgA ailbhe@mendeddrum.org

          @vfrmedia @sjpurrs There was a long time when British men could cry about football but *not about almost anything else*.

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          #36

          @Ailbhe @vfrmedia I think that's the same here, even now. It seems strange how that's eventuated

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          • bamfingle@cyberplace.socialB bamfingle@cyberplace.social

            @sjpurrs Sorry, It's the Great Pottery Throw Down. My apologies!

            sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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            sjpurrs@mastodon.social
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            #37

            @bamfingle 👍 Thanks

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            • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

              Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

              snarklestiltzkin@c.imS This user is from outside of this forum
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              snarklestiltzkin@c.im
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              #38

              @sjpurrs Good for you.

              only broken, confused men don't cry. Life is fucked up sometimes. The only men who don't cry in those times are the fucked up ones

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              • snarklestiltzkin@c.imS snarklestiltzkin@c.im

                @sjpurrs Good for you.

                only broken, confused men don't cry. Life is fucked up sometimes. The only men who don't cry in those times are the fucked up ones

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                #39

                @snarklestiltzkin 💯

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                • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                  Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                  villon@bildung.socialV This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #40

                  @sjpurrs

                  Men have always cried. Especially if they found themselves on the battlefields and in the trenches due to their self-overestimation and had to find that their bodies are also injured. Ultimately, they also called for their mother, which is very understandable.

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                  • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                    Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                    joshef@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                    joshef@mastodon.social
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                    #41

                    @sjpurrs
                    I cried my eyes out when Stoppit passed and the rest of any fliud left me when little Ouchie died. I don't know what I'll happen when any of our four Noobs pass.

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                    • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                      @Ailbhe @vfrmedia I think that's the same here, even now. It seems strange how that's eventuated

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                      #42

                      @sjpurrs I was really surprised when I saw men crying on the evening news about Grenfell, particularly Arnold Tarling. But there was no cruel fallout about it.

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                      • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                        Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

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                        deepmud@mas.to
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                        #43

                        @sjpurrs good for you! It's really important that men get to use the full complement of emotions. Men do not have different emotions than women. Men have been oppressed by the toxic masculinity thing just as much as women

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                        • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                          Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                          therealalpha67@mastodon.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
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                          therealalpha67@mastodon.social
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                          #44

                          @sjpurrs You are a real alpha like... myself

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                          • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                            Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

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                            josephmeyer@c.im
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                            #45

                            @sjpurrs Serendipity. Early today, I told a sensitive neighbor who has been upset by a childish feud among adults in our neighborhood that I will sometime tell her my thoughts about parenting my challenging daughter. Doing so will make me cry, as it has before. I love my daughter a lot and think it is terribly unfair that she is burdened by her unchosen disabilities and lives in a country that will ignore her at best and at worst will judge her.

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                            • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                              Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                              em_and_future_cats@mastodon.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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                              em_and_future_cats@mastodon.social
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                              #46

                              @sjpurrs absolutely!!!!💯
                              Jeeeesh there’s still young people out there who think that? Sadge 😿🫩 not terribly surprising, I get to hear a backward remarks at class about backwards views 🙄🫩 but I don’t let it slide, because that ain’t right no matter how you turn it

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                              • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                                Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                                leontheloner@defcon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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                                leontheloner@defcon.social
                                wrote sidst redigeret af
                                #47

                                @sjpurrs The manliest shit in the world is being whatever the fuck you want and not letting anyone else tell you how you have to be. Including what you choose to express emotionally.

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                                • therealalpha67@mastodon.socialT therealalpha67@mastodon.social

                                  @sjpurrs You are a real alpha like... myself

                                  leontheloner@defcon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #48

                                  @TheRealAlpha67 @sjpurrs Oh fuck that username

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                                  • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                                    Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                                    jackmexa4@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    jackmexa4@mastodon.social
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                                    #49

                                    @sjpurrs

                                    Crying is as natural for men as it is for any human being. Who would say something as absurd as “men don’t cry” in the freaking 21st century! That’s just so dumb.

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                                    • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                                      Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

                                      metalheaddana@metalhead.clubM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      metalheaddana@metalhead.club
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                                      #50

                                      @sjpurrs I'm a boring middle-aged white dude and I cry all the time. Fucking commercials make me cry, movies, sad songs, randomly remembering that my dog will die someday so I have to pull the car over LOL.

                                      I was raised by a boys don't cry, dad, but I cry. I still feel ashamed and want to hide, but I do cry and it's kinda silly to deny that we have emotions and are human beings.

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                                      • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                                        Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

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                                        ox1de@cyberplace.social
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                                        #51

                                        @sjpurrs I agree with u, I’m an emotional fuck. It’s a release and should not be shamed

                                        Peace and love brother

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                                        • sjpurrs@mastodon.socialS sjpurrs@mastodon.social

                                          Someone announced in our class last week that men don't cry and for the first time in my life, I publicly hit back and said, "I do". Many in the class were shocked and didn't believe me, so I explained how I've always cried. When I was young, it was secretly but as an adult, I cry when emotion overwhelms me. I don't see it as a sign of weakness anymore. I think it's a sign of strength to accept what your body needs to do and I feel much better afterwards.

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                                          pentup@kinkycats.org
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                                          #52

                                          @sjpurrs We need to start giving "men don't cry" the same reaction as "women don't fart".

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