Are men assholes to each other and AMAB people about not manning up correctly? Yeah, of course. Unfortunately, that's part of patriarchy, too, and it isn't going to change unless men stand up to that shit themselves. The rest of us can't do it for you.But the kind of toxic machismo and hysterical insecurity that drives the manosphere and conservatism in general is really dumb, actually.And totally unnecessary!And in my opinion, it makes you look weak for bowing to it!